laffytaffer 4 weeks ago • 100%
Is there something Irish folks have moved to instead of alcohol? Over in the states, more people are using marijuana instead. But according to folks I've talked to, weed isn't super popular over there. English guy I chatted with said that stuff like coke and ecstasy is pretty common, but that's England and I also feel like that might have just been him lol
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
I actually go by a different name now that has a different reason to it, but that's the logic a lot of other friends stuck with, a username or game character they connect with. One of my best friends is named Ikora because of the Destiny character for instance.
Gonna do my best to avoid doxxing myself, but the name I go by now I chose for a few reasons:
- It's a traditional Irish name, I've learned in the last couple years that I'm almost completely ethnically Irish.
- It's fairly gender neutral at least by American standards, so it doesn't necessarily out me as trans while I'm still pretty early in transitioning.
- I took it from an old folk song I grew up with, so there's also personal history and ties to my family with it.
Ultimately everyone is gonna have their own reasons for the name they choose, but I've tried a couple names over the years to see which ones fit. Sometimes I've had ones that I felt a real connection to, but it felt all wrong to get called it. It's one of those things that can be a journey while you transition.
Also speaking from personal experience, the trans folks I know are delighted to explain why they chose the name the did. It's not impolite at all to ask, just so long as it's not the very first thing you ask lol.
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
I feel like it's probably pretty common for trans folks who spend a lot of time online. The internet was where we got to explore ourselves.
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
What does the G stand for tho? Edit: oh grandparent?
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
I understand what it means in context here, but what does GP stand for? Figure it's not a typo of OP.
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
I'm trans and the name I chose is based off an old username of mine because I got more used to people calling me that.
Come to think of it a lot of my trans friends did something similar.
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
"A nuke is considered safe" was what made object classes make sense for me.
laffytaffer 1 month ago • 100%
Was about to make a post of my own asking about this feature. Would be a really useful option to have, especially for viewing stuff by hexbear users for example, where I believe including pronouns is mandatory.
laffytaffer 2 months ago • 87%
I understand why Harry Potter found a place in everyone's hearts. But with the behavior of the author, the books are in hindsight a lot more mean spirited than I remembered. That hatred for me and my loved ones bled into the books quite a lot now that I can recognize it.
laffytaffer 3 months ago • 100%
Looks like it. Was pleasantly surprised to see chapotraphouse posts in my feed again out of nowhere.
laffytaffer 3 months ago • 100%
No that's the Rubicon. Rubric is the guy who directed The Shining
laffytaffer 4 months ago • 100%
Not necessarily. Nonbinary covers a broad range of gender identities that don't all exclusively use they/them.
laffytaffer 4 months ago • 100%
I didn't think that was a real line until I started playing last month and of course that clown would be the one to say it.
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
Oh wow I remember loving their work when I was on Twitter. The atmosphere with all of their pieces are so cool and unique. Shame all of their work seems basically impossible to look at without making a Twitter account 😕
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
I disagree. I'm not much of a Fallout fan, but I picked up New Vegas for the first time because of the show, installed the Viva New Vegas mods mentioned in another comment, and this game absolutely fucking rules.
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
Changing the url to sh.reddit.com lets you get around it. Been using that when I've needed to look up a reddit thread at work.
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
This really got to the heart of what I was trying to ask. Fantastic explanation, thank you!
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 88%
Gotcha, so maybe the sudden positive feeling about Biden is more of a reaction to that mindset to try and sway folks back to voting? That'd certainly make sense to me.
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 88%
All fair points, it was just jarring to see the consensus shift from "both options suck shit" to "Biden will do I guess"
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 87%
To clarify, you're saying it's folks from the popular instances trying to rebrand the conversation as "Biden is cool as fuck actually" as well as folks willing to just roll with that? Or am I misinterpreting?
(I gotta stop making comments on lemmy when I'm stoned and only have 2 brain cells)
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 81%
In the last couple weeks, I've noticed a sudden and dramatic shift in tone with how Biden is talked about on Lemmy as well as other corners of the internet I lurk on(e.g. this comment section). Before, it seemed like the general opinion was "he's nowhere close to my 1st choice, but the alternative is Trump." And now I feel like people are a lot quicker to jump to his defense and treat him like one of the better presidents of our lifetime.
I'm gonna admit that I'm a lot less up to date and informed about politics than I should be, but where did this recent pivot on Biden come from?
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
I do this too. Instead of minis, I tape a drawing onto a Starburst and whoever kills the monster gets to eat the Starburst. I'm gonna have to get something like a donut for the boss fight at the end of the adventure I'm running rn.
laffytaffer 5 months ago • 100%
You may still dislike it now, but I'd recommend giving it another chance. I replayed it last year and now it feels like a stripped down version of God Of War 4(and maybe Ragnarok too but I haven't played). Valravn was rough for sure though, cant blame you getting frustrated. I remember stopping there the very first time I played, it took a break of a few months before I came back and finished the whole thing.
laffytaffer 6 months ago • 100%
The term you're looking for is cisgender. Trans = "on the other side of", cis = "on this side of"
laffytaffer 6 months ago • 100%
We can clown on the dude without using that kind of language in a demeaning way.
laffytaffer 7 months ago • 66%
Absolutely, there's a lot of stories that would have been better received as their own original IPs. Unfortunately, it's a lot safer to make a sequel so you can count on sales from the pre-established fanbase. Another good example I always go to is the Thief video games, where I got my username. The reboot dramatically changed all the mechanics and ditched a lot of what made the first games so engaging, very little aside from a few proper nouns has any resemblance to the original. It could have been a decent stealth game if it sold itself on its own merits(it certainly wasn't terrible) but as a Thief game, it justifiably got fans upset.
laffytaffer 7 months ago • 100%
It could have been an acceptably decent movie if it wasn't trying to be part of the GitS franchise. As a GitS fan I hated it, but I wonder if it could have been more fun to watch if I was unfamiliar with the series. I remember thinking the same with a lot of movies based on books I hadn't read like Percy Jackson, the movie became a lot worse after reading the source material.
laffytaffer 7 months ago • 100%
God Thi4f is an obscure pull but with my username I obviously feel the pain on that one.
laffytaffer 7 months ago • 96%
Oh so Señor Chang in the D&D episode of Community.
laffytaffer 8 months ago • 100%
A theory I've seen floated around is that the ship is travelling through the seam, hence why Sam and Fragile were blue at one point. My best guess is that the puppet and all the weird monsters are connected to the seam somehow rather than someone's beach.
With Higgs, I remember a lot of people guessing in the first trailer that he fused with or possessed Amelie somehow because of the hairdo, and I'm still rolling with that assumption.
laffytaffer 8 months ago • 100%
I'm currently high as shit and this trailer is too bonkers to possibly summarize beyond "this game is gonna be weird" I was quite proud of myself for being able to decipher Death Stranding and make sense of its plot. After the first trailer and then this one, I can confidently say that I have no idea what's going on.
laffytaffer 8 months ago • 100%
Mexico
I have several questions
laffytaffer 8 months ago • 50%
what if the world was made of pudding
laffytaffer 9 months ago • 100%
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laffytaffer 9 months ago • 100%
I'm not really sure what part of your comment was an opinion, but "people don't start punk bands anymore" is simply not true. There's plenty of new punk acts out there, the genre didn't just come to an abrupt halt in 1990. Just off the top of my head is IDLES and The Chats, but you can find tons of recent bands if you look.
laffytaffer 9 months ago • 100%
Of course once I post a comment about it it starts working lol. Not sure what happened. Edit: actually I realize I was trying to log in on my work wifi. Maybe VPN had something to do with it?
laffytaffer 9 months ago • 100%
Huh, somehow completely blew past my radar. Thanks for the info!
laffytaffer 9 months ago • 100%
Is that what happened? I occasionally check reddit at work since it's unfortunately still one of the better places for actual answers to things, and in the last few days I've needed to use old.reddit.com to get around getting blocked. VPN block explains a lot.
laffytaffer 10 months ago • 100%
I gotchu
laffytaffer 10 months ago • 100%
Bummed out to not get any more news on Death Stranding 2, I'd been looking forward to it for weeks. But this teaser is really intriguing, gave a lot of things for me and my friends to speculate on.
For most of act 1, fights felt reasonably difficult. There were only a few points where I had a tpk. However, between early access and now, that last fight felt like a sharp spike in difficulty. My first time through, it took me and my wife 2 days to finally cheese it. This time around it still took us 3 or 4 reloads and something I'll talk about in the spoiler section before we made it. It seems like you suddenly need to get good at really strategizing or find some extra wrinkle to make it possible. But I'm curious to hear how other folks managed to get through the fight. ::: spoiler Spoilers I had no idea until today on our third reload that you could recruit the duergar rebels to fight with you against Nere. Suddenly having an entire army of allies to help out really feels like how the fight was intended. It was only through abusing running away to long rest and have Withers res folks that we managed to take everyone on by ourselves before. I had always figured there was some weirdness in encounter balance and not that I had missed the way the fight is supposed to play out. If someone here managed to take down Nere, his followers, AND the rebels, please let me know how you pulled that insanity off. I can already tell that Act 2 is going to force me to step up my game on the strategy end of things. :::