asklemmy Ask Lemmy What are the Top 3 TV Shows that define your (personal) youth?
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nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions Seriously, what the f*** is keeping Donald Trump in this presidential race?
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    KammicRelief
    7 days ago 100%

    Yep. My parents are in their own echo chamber of Fox news and other 80-year-old racist fucks, and anything you try to say bounces off them with the basic formula you outlined. Actual external logic doesn't matter. The wild thing is how big that echo chamber has gotten.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How to deal with exhaustion?
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    KammicRelief
    1 week ago 100%

    a good dropperful of liquid vitamin D is good for me once a week. make sure it's enough -- the typical recommended daily values (at least in the US) are pretty low.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What movie did you watch as I kid which you shouldn't have?
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    autism Autism HAII!~ I need new noise canceling headphones, but I dunno what to get
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    KammicRelief
    2 weeks ago 100%

    I've worn my xm3s for thousands of hours over 5+years, but have never replaced the pads. What does it do? Does it make the NR of better? Or just a comfort thing?

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy without saying how old you are, how old are you?
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    KammicRelief
    2 weeks ago 100%

    Did you have the little switch screwed into the back of your set to go from "TV" to "GAME" ?

    also, I came here to post "Atari 2600" but I'll leave it in this comment instead :P

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  • lemmybewholesome Lemmy Be Wholesome How Amazing Things Are
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    KammicRelief
    2 weeks ago 100%

    I don't reply a lot, but your comment hits home for me, so: That's a bummer. No, Buddhism doesn't have to do that, but there are a lot of ways to do buddhism, many branches/sects, a lot of people doing it wrong, overdoing it, doing it as obsessively as they did guitar etc. (raises hand).. It's sad that it's hard to find good role models in buddhism in the west, so we're stuck sometimes trying to weed out the good/pure from the narcissistic youtubers. But as a fellow introvert who has done and still does a lot of things obsessively (including guitar, cycling, third wave coffee brewing/roasting, and meditation), my feel is: buddhism doesn't require you to give up those things. It changes your clingy relationship to them, which may decrease your interest... for example, I realized I don't want to be a rockstar, which was this big painful want for me (I had to practice every day and GET GOOD and find a band or else), and that changed my relationship with guitar. I still absolutely love playing, and practicing, but it's a more relaxed love, not this painful drive to get this "thing." You start to see the dreamlike quality of the "fictional" life you're living, that it's made up of concepts that we project from our own minds. But: you still want it to be a good dream, so you still do fun stuff! I love my friends and family, love jamming with my buds, love riding outside.. but I'm able to see a little better now (than say 10 years ago) when that painful craving kicks in.. so, same stuff, different relationship. More relaxed. At its best, more like a lucid dream than an anxiety dream.

    However, at various points on my journey I've been accused by those close to me (well, my partner) of getting too into it. There may have been times where I was gung ho about meditating, and could've been ready to throw away old hobbies in the name of "spirituality.". so I get that.. To answer your question, I don't think buddhism makes you a zombie who finds everything meh because it doesn't matter. If you're trying too hard, you might unnecessarily eschew parts of your former life, but that's not necessary for the path (unless you're doing the whole monk thing.. in which case, just go be a monk). Quite the contrary, life gets easier because you can pick up a hobby without the painful baggage of identifying with "I am this big coffee nerd now!" or whatever, and... just kinda enjoy it more. I'm not great at explaining it, I realize, hahaha. :)

    I guess, feel free to PM me if you want to get more specific. I'm curious what sort of meditation your friend does. But I also don't want to intervene.. I am no expert.

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  • pics pics In the mountains' shadow [OC]
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    KammicRelief
    2 weeks ago 100%

    That's really nice. The graininess gives it an "old photo" vibe -- was that on purpose? (if not, how/why so grainy?)

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What's a giveaway or tell that someone may be *too* online?
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    KammicRelief
    3 weeks ago 100%

    When they seem to think it's socially acceptable to scroll while hanging out with other people. I usually give the benefit of the doubt--"oh they're responding to a text....... right? oh damn, they are scrolling? and I'm sitting right here with them?"

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What is the movie like thing that has happened to you?
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    KammicRelief
    3 weeks ago 100%

    Maybe like 20 years ago, my partner and I were at a couple-friends' apartment on a hot sweaty summer day. The four of us sitting in a small circle on the hardwood living room floor, smoking a bowl.. Nothing but the sound of the flicking lighter, and the squeaky hum of the ceiling fan providing us with some margin of relief from the heat. Ahh...

    Then boom. The ceiling fan's loose screw squeaked its last squeak and the whole fixture fell, heavy-ass motor assembly and all, exactly in the middle of our circle. One of the wooden blades nicked my friend on the way down for a bloody eyebrow. But the heavy middle part, which could've killed any of us, landed right in the middle of our little arms-length bowl circle. This wasn't one of those skinny modern fans you install by yourself.. The thing was freakin' heavy.

    "Whoa."

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  • books Books What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? August 20
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    KammicRelief
    4 weeks ago 100%

    Yeahhh.... I knew that going in, and I think I'm ok with it. Ask me again when I finish book 2 though :)

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  • books Books What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? August 20
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    KammicRelief
    4 weeks ago 100%

    I'm currently devouring The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss, and it's every bit as good as my friends said it'd be. If you're into fantasy/Witcher kind of stuff, it's brilliant. Heck, it's probably great even if you're not.

    I recently finished the 3rd and 4th books of Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles, which have been fun. I'm not sure if I'll continue them anytime soon though. So many other books to read.

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  • books Books What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? August 20
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    KammicRelief
    4 weeks ago 100%

    Yeah, the Culture novels are great! I've only read a couple of 'em (including PoG), but want more.

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  • news News Donald Trump says he will flee to Venezuela if he loses election [Newsweek]
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    politics politics J.D. Vance’s backdrop makes it look like he’s campaigning for ‘Kamala’
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    books Books What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? July 15
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    KammicRelief
    2 months ago 100%

    I really like them! I read the first two years ago as a kid, and reread them recently when the AMC show came out (which I highly recommend if you haven't seen it). I will probably read at least the fourth one, but maybe not right away. Too many other books on the stack. :) But yeah, I love Anne Rice's style, and she did a great job building off existing vampire lore and also adding new lore on top of it.

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    KammicRelief
    2 months ago 100%

    I fiiinally finished The Recognitions (Gaddis), so now I'm on to something lighter and easier to enjoy: The Queen of the Damned (Anne Rice). My kid and I are sort of going through the vamp chronicles together, and they've been excited for me to start reading this one and catch up with them.

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  • books Books What book are you reading lately? (7/11/2024)
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    KammicRelief
    2 months ago 100%

    I've been reading The Recognitions (by William Gaddis) for months and I'm ready to be done with it. It's brilliantly written, but it's long and difficult in parts. So I'm kind of speed-reading the last 1/4 of it just because I'm losing steam. Don't get me wrong... it's a great book!

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  • explainlikeimfive Explain Like I'm Five How can there be functioning bathrooms in high rises?
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    KammicRelief
    2 months ago 100%

    Finally, "shit-ton" would be a legit word. "This high rise produces 8 shit-tons of energy per month!"

    (...considering when fuck-ton will have its day as well..)

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    Guitar Pedals KammicRelief 4 months ago 100%
    Specular Tempus

    Does anyone here own one? I have questions! Kind of lusting for one, but, I need to know a little more about the functionality of selecting and combining patches (and people on youtube seem to only go through the sounds). Thanks!

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    Android KammicRelief 5 months ago 84%
    Battery use on OLED when screen black but not "off"?

    Hey, what's up. I've been trying to get my phone (oneplus 8) all perfect again, after I recently decided not to use fingerprint security anymore. I now use a password, which feels right, but when I'm just sitting at my desk it feels like overkill to have to retype it so many times when I'm just checking little things. So.. I'm trying one of those pretend-screen-off apps (Blackr) with which I can "turn off" the screen with a quick press, for the times when I want my screen off, but don't need full security (like, I'm not leaving my desk, cops aren't breaking down my door, etc.). Then I just double-tap the screen to turn the screen back on. If I want security, I use the actual power button to turn the screen off, and then when I open it back up it asks for my password as usual. Anyway! I've been trying this for a day or so, and.. it just *seems* like my battery is draining faster. I think. Is it? I can't be sure, and I know the answer is to do some rigorous scientific testing, but I ain't got time... I knew someone(s) out here has been through the same thing and has the answer, so... anybody know? :) Thank you!!

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    Ask Lemmy KammicRelief 9 months ago 93%
    What non-SMS non-Apple app can I use to "text" my younger kid on their iPad

    Hi! My less-than-10-year-old has their own iPad (registered under my apple id) and wants to be able to "text" with the rest of the family. Most of us are not Apple people though: Android phones, using some combo of SMS, Discord, and Signal. The little one doesn't have a phone, so I think that prevents us from signing them up for Signal. I could probably install Discord on the iPad, though it doesn't feel ideal. They use iMessage (or whatever it's called) to text a couple other friends/grandma/etc who also have Apple stuff, but what should we use for our mostly-non-Apple family that wouldn't require a phone number? An internet search pointed me to WhatsApp, Telegram, Viber.... stuff I've never used but it seems popular. Facebook Messenger also, but screw that. Google Chat/Hangouts (or whatever it's called now) is another option, which would require creating a google account. If nothing else appeals to me we'll probably go the Discord route, and I'll just have to be clear, don't join random servers :) But, anybody out there use WhatsApp with your kid, and does it not require a phone number? I'm open to other ideas! Thank you...

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    Coffee KammicRelief 1 year ago 95%
    Anyone mineralize water for brewing?

    We just installed a reverse osmosis (RO) filter system at our house, because the tap water tastes gross. I tested the TDS and it was 3ppm! I thought "oh that must be great, pure water," but my friend told me you actually want minerals in there to help extract. So... Anyone else in this boat? I know there are RO systems that will remineralize after the filter, but ours doesn't.. And I don't think I want to uninstall this beast. I know there are little drops you can add, but they seem expensive... Just wondering what y'all other home brewers do. Thanks!

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    Guitar Pedals KammicRelief 1 year ago 95%
    my board

    Howdy! Here is my current signal chain, starting from either a Strat (2001 American deluxe) or an Ibanez Artcore AS-73.. ...micro Q-Tron > Phase 90 > sf300 (painted by my kid) > OD-200 > Signa Comp > e-lady > polytune > dd-500 > rv-500 > rc-1 > jc-40 I'm still playing with the e-lady position. And I'm still trying to find the best use for the volume pedal. Currently it's hooked up as an expression pedal for the dd-500, but.. I find myself never using it. I originally thought I'd use it for volume swells but I never used that either... Maybe not worth the real estate? Also, still playing with using sf-300 mostly as a boost, or mostly as fuzz... Never ending! Edit: still trying to get the pic to post from this mobile app...

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    Meditation space KammicRelief 1 year ago 66%
    A Non-Definitive Guide to Non-Duality every.to

    This is a great read. It clarified some stuff for me on non-duality, and dare I say that the instructions (on "the mental move") are effective.

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