As long as its strictly sexual

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 14 hours ago • 100%

> Some people prefer to smoke after sex but I prefer a soda after an ice cream sandwich Just random stuff and non-sequitars me brain stumbles onto...

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 1 day ago • 100%

It was a calming, pretty little tune played on flute

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 1 day ago • 100%

I like when one shows the white of her eyes, it looks so funny and intentful 👀

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 days ago • 100%

What sorcery would that require?

ADHD cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 97%

By that I mean what are some powerful and simple basic applied techniques or behaviors that are really useful you've developed or discovered in your life that makes things work or improve. Lets keep them simple and powerful 🧙‍♂️ > Let people on the phone know that you don't mind if something is taking a bit longer and that you're cool and with them whatever happens. Say something like, its okay I'm not in a rush ☺️ They'll appreciate taking some of the pressure off and showing you are a receptive audience (you're rooting for them) and I've found it to get superior outcomes since I started doing it, even tho I was always generally polite previously

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 98%

> People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life Doesn't matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.

Just noticed the steam from my tea 😅

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 88%

It seems like a sort of idée fixe that means something, just like that twinkly bit that plays in the sad introspective theme. Sort of like a black starry sky reflecting off an ocean of sadness. I dunno haha, it seems like it signifies something

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 97%

I've cleaned/sanitized and let it dry and everything. The audio seems fine and I'm playing that audio track that dislodges the water with sound. Anything else I should do? Rice etc?

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 100%

I like the idea of being able to convert any audio track into its equivalent piano version. Do we have the technology to do this or is it even possible?

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 2 weeks ago • 90%

I like pure red light (#FF0000) because its relaxing and lessens visual information overload Baker-Miller pink is also interesting, was proposed to reduce violence and promote calmness in prison. Also very relaxing

Casual Conversation cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 97%

1: my job 2: my pets 3: apartment What a ride its been that I am feeling grateful and for once, at some level of genuine okayness Reach down: whats going at least okay that you are thankful to be aligned with?

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 97%

I find myself often winging it with "themself/themselves" and it seems to be like themselves is always colloquially correct when there are multiple preceding nouns you're referring to... Otherwise if there's only one antecedent or whatever, its themself Be gentle haha

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 36%

I want to understand it but everything I read about it oscillates impossibly between vulgar metals -> gold and some kind of spiritual transformation metaphysical stuff What is it and what can be legit gleaned from it in an empirical or useful sense? Does it have utility outside of use as a metaphor or allegory or whatever?

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 98%

I'm more referring to when a random person experiences a random craving for something they've had before. Does that generally point to something you've had before that unknowingly satisfied a deficiency and which your body tacitly took note of? I notice it sometimes, like Beef = i "need" a burger (I'm a skinny dude, beef is not a common staple for me) Fruit: i need juice or actual berries in yogurt for a smoothie or parfait

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 98%

I loved a cafe with super comfy couches and chill ambiance (few years). Would love to have a similar haunt someday again but I don't believe I will find it

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 95%

> **24 Hour daily agenda (30 minute blocks)** This was from David Burns Feeling Good and I found it quite useful at various points. Basically: > 1 Use a form or make your own spreadsheet with all 24 hours of the day covered but split up even further into 30 or 15 minute blocks. It also has a section to report what you scheduled vs what you ended up doing > 2 Brainstorm all the things you need or would like to get done and give a time estimate for each based on how long its taken you ideally in the past > 3 Schedule each item based on how much effort/complexity it requires (earlier = more complex/energy-intensive) and make sure the tasks are spaced so that there is enough time and a little buffer for breathing room (based on your durations) Sorta looks like this, can't seem to find the original necessarily but you get the point  Very useful and practical tool **Please name the tool/exercise and limit to CBT for this thread (I want to cover and discover others in future topics focused on them). I really want to avoid boilerplate namedropping "this or that therapy but you'd have to pay to see a therapist, you wouldn't understand". That just not helpful, please elaborate** Any pedantic replies not answering question won't be entertained

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 96%

By stochastic, I mean it randomly ticks on only one arbitrary beat per measure

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 3 weeks ago • 76%

I sort of want to see what these things are like but I don't want to give them any data or contribute to them in any way haha. I've heard the Queen of Canada uses it which intrigues me

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 4 weeks ago • 96%

By drinkable, I mean if theres pasta or vegatables they are small and the soup is generally able to be drank rather than necessarily needing a utensil to take in All I can think of are - italian wedding soup - Liptons cup o soup (wish there was a heartier version of this with similar noodles but infinity of them) [EDIT: **Pretty sure I wanna do something like The Geeky Chef's "Elixir Soup" from Windwaker but I want to find little noodles like Lipton's Cup o' Soup**](http://www.geekychef.com/2012/12/elixer-soup.html?m=0)

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 4 weeks ago • 98%

I'm rediscovering the use of a blue SAD light for productive works/study time. Also Newton's cradle is good for setting a beat

They taste like little dry trees It cant be done

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 1 month ago • 98%

I would say my financial tracking document. Also a music file I listen to everyday

Ask Lemmy cheese_greater • 1 month ago • 97%

I have a lap cat so I get lots of cat-in-lap time 🐱