TomboyShulk 1 day ago • 100%
Unedited panel, it's from Dandadan
TomboyShulk 6 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 10 months ago • 100%
the one you're looking for is
Taking a dog into a gay bar, saying “who’s a good boy” and writing down which guys react subconsciously
it's all admin-side so we'd have to write a separate list for the public and keep that updated
TomboyShulk 10 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
the opinions of colonizers have no stay in my brain :nia-smug:
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
only a slightly less pathetic version of that /r/ShitHexbearSays sub that popped up a while back that had like one active account
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
Reporter: @airportline@lemmy.ml
Reason: what the actual fuck is wrong with this person?
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
Also, lmao, the titles. Come on goat, just call me the r-slur. I know you want to. I can hear it under your breath each time you type Extremely Confused
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
get fucked
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
@goat@sh.itjust.works I'm flattered that you're constantly thinking of me, but I have a strict "no reactionaries" dating policy, sorry
TomboyShulk 11 months ago • 100%
this is the second post in a row they've made about me
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
She’s a registered Democrat, by the way, if that meant anything at all
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I have Zionists in my family who are like “they were an uncivilized population until us Jews came in” and I’m like what THE FUCK, GRANDMA?!
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
Goodbye
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
currently searching the words 'israel' 'palestine' and 'hamas' on lemmy.world and planning to go to town. wish me a bountiful harvest gamers
edit: finished! clapped 8 accounts from instances we're still federated with for it
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
That's alright! I'm still working on mine personally. For me, I'm blessed in having an environment where I have many people to turn to in learning the language. !אני לא מבין את המילים 'פ'אב'לה ב'וס', אבל אני מבין את החלק השני של המשפט. זה לקח לי הרבה זמן להגיע לכאן, ואני רואה שאתה עושה עבודה טובה
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
שלום. אני יהודי אשכנזי, והעברית שלי פשוטה. למדתי את זה בקיץ במחנה. אני שמח לפגוש אותך. אם הבנתי לא נכון, אני מצטער
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
you're lookin at her
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
cry more reactionaries
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
you must be extremely confused to believe what you believe and not what I believe
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
god these people are so fucking patronizing
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
תודה רבה
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I simply violate the law
From the river to the sea, you malignant freaks ![luffy-wave](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/75dd9c73-78d1-4107-b403-c61868689f3d.png "emoji luffy-wave")
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
here’s what you’re gonna do. you’re gonna go into the thread where you’re being called out and say “I didn’t know about the content of the game. I don’t mean to come across as such. I apologize for the misunderstanding, I don’t mean to defend the developer or the game or the content within it, I just wanted to infodump about the subject itself.” and then you’re gonna say the words “I don’t want to talk about this topic anymore, I don’t have anything more to say about it beyond what I’ve already said” to the people who egg you on about it, and then you’re gonna stand up from your computer and get some fresh air.
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
You are still holding the line at this moment
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
Then… just say that, take the L, acknowledge you can’t speak for it and move on, instead of continuing to fervently hold the line past that
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I have ADHD as well and also know about the yandere subculture and also know not to reflexively jump in to clarify the nuances of the fetish of the man being accused of pedophilia. If I did do that and people called me out on it, I would simply back down and say “I know nothing about the game, so I don’t want to comment further here.” Not to minimize your experiences; sounds like a skill issue though
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I would say defending to me encompasses doubling down on a game you’ve never heard of until now being non-sexual because you feel compelled to repackage a stalker fetish as non-fetishistic
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
where in undertale do you torture then kill schoolgirls and then hide their bodies. Did I miss that part
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I simply would not reflexively defend the game I know absolutely nothing about
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
I’m gonna give you all at least one hour to pile onto this persnickety rapscallion, folks. Maybe less, but I’m feeling generous tonight—I’m feeling generous. Don’t say I don’t give you nice things!
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
@goat@sh.itjust.works is the shadowboxing middleweight champion, folks. I was doing a purge sweep of !meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works earlier and I found that they’d convinced themselves that me purging users who participated in it meant that I was spending precious hours of my life banning accounts native to sh.itjust.sucks, post-defederation.
You do know other instances are federated with both you and us, right? And some of those users on those instances post/comment in your comm. I’m banning those users. I’m fascinated that was not immediately implied. I want to know how you convinced yourself otherwise
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
Imagine being so anti-Marxist as a self-titled anarchist that you start riding for ancaps
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 100%
TomboyShulk 12 months ago • 90%
lmao this user got banned from this community on dbzer0's end, get fucked
you may notice 32 fewer annoying people on the fediverse and that's because I combed through 4 cross-site hexbear drama threads and all of [!meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works](https://sh.itjust.works/c/meanwhileongrad) for users on instances we're still federated with that would either vehemently rather not see this site themselves, have active beef with this site, or are just straight up reactionary, and I banned them. I banned them all. I am become George Orwell, Nineteen of Eighty-Fours. ![stalin-feels-good](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/dc5cdd04-5b12-4b9c-93a7-25eb4d3dce9e.png "emoji stalin-feels-good")
Greetings gamers and those who wisely abstain, It has become clear to us that even in the short while we’ve federated, the situation with sh.itholefor.nazis is entirely untenable and we will be defederating immediately. Multiple instances of ableist and homophobic slurs directed at our users, overwhelming litigiousness against even the most innocuous comments by our users, and just a general ethos of reactionary behavior. We’re done and out. One of the concerns with embracing TC69 thought on site bans with federation is that the user would basically be just hexbear-side hidden and blocked from our comms, free to post reactionary content without the fear of Lenin behind them. That was a silly concern. We will resume our pre-federation policies regarding site bans. :07:
Due to multiple factors, such as [unaddressed ableist removals](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3df0e4c7-bb64-4c00-bbdb-5c753018895c.jpeg?format=webp) from the /c/196 moderators, [defense of chasers](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/97e9abd7-e8be-499e-8db7-7a7d5d1e2762.webp), [no-quarter rules regarding our users](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/8dc37487-d36b-4a55-9519-c3f8bb4fcae6.png), [leakage of good-faith DMs from our admin team](https://hexbear.net/post/361826), and a general lack of initiative to punish these behaviors, we have come to the conclusion that the 196 community on lemmy.blahaj.zone has made the fediverse an unsafe space for our queer, disabled, neurodivergent, non-western, and other marginalized comrades on this forum, and we will be defederating from lemmy.blahaj.zone until we can be confident that this will not continue to be an issue. We have attempted to make good-faith parley with both the instance admin and the comm moderators, but we've reached a point which we feel that until these behaviors are addressed by instance administration, we can no longer continue to federate in good-faith while our users are being actively invalidated by a small-but-vocal portion of the forum. Once we are confident that these behaviors have ceased and are unlikely to continue, we are more-than-happy to refederate in the name of queer solidarity. Thanks for bearing with us :07:
Hi all, With regards to our recent integration into the Fediverse, it has become evident that specific rules should be outlined regarding our conduct towards it and our place in it. As such, we are making provisional amendments to the Code of Conduct in specific regard to federation as we find our footing and stake our ground as a part of the wider Fediverse ecosystem. The amendments are as such, demarcated within the dividers: __________ # Federation In regards to the Fediverse, a dual-pronged approach should be assumed: **Local Communities** Conduct remains as previously outlined [in the Hexbear Code of Conduct], except: 1. Users visiting Hexbear should be given breathing room to inquire in good-faith about topics that seem obvious to well-trodden leftists. Assume good faith in even the most obvious of questions, except in cases where a user is explicitly acting in a combative or unreasonable manner. 2. Do not ping users from other federated instances with intent to goad or mock. 3. Do not directly link to comments or posts of other federated instances on public posts with intent to goad or mock. 4. Disengagement rules, whilst not amended, are thoroughly emphasized regarding visiting users. **Federated Instances** Assume the conduct outlined regarding local communities, as well as: 1. When in a federated instance, their rules (and their code of conduct) apply. 2. Allow instances their own space for discussion, if requested implicitly or explicitly. If said discussion regards this site or its users, you are allowed to discuss said discussion within the local purview (meaning, within a Hexbear community), with regards to the rules laid out prior. 3. Conduct that is deemed untenably toxic to the Fediverse and Hexbear’s standing within it (by discretion of Hexbear moderation) may be subject to reprisal, regardless of whether it is explicitly outlined. _______ We're thankful to the moderation and admins of the instances federated with us for their patience as we carve out our own little hole within the Fediverse. And to our beautiful posters, thank you for bearing with us in this week where decades happen ![07](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/4d01158b-c48e-41d4-a94f-5f66eb7f051f.png "07")