askmenover30 askmenover30 Men Over Thirty, what's your opinion on getting the snip?
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    6 months ago 100%

    I got the snip when I was 28. Specifically sought out a scalpeless procedure.

    Worst part was the awkwardness of just being on the table naked with some dude going to work on my genitals. Virtually no pain, really for me. The only time was when I decided I was done being particularly lazy/careful and did some cooking. Needed to crouch to get a pain and was VERY uncomfortable.

    If you know you don't want (any, or more) kids, just don't. Generally speaking, the side effects are worse for your partners to use birth control etc, and its just a one time thing for you.

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  • piracy Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ Better torrent client for MacOS Sonoma?
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    6 months ago 100%

    Correct.

    With normal split tunneling you can normally do something like this anyways, but it can be finicky to configure, and easy for something like DNS, etc to access the internet without your VPN in the middle. And sometimes if your VPN fails to connect, you could be connecting without your VPN.

    By using docker with gluetun + qbit (I believe docker images for this setup exist already) you can force it to use only your VPN, and if the connection fails then your bittorrent client can't connect. With gluetun all your bittorrent traffic would flow through your VPN, but there's a way it can be configured to allow only your webui port to be accessed locally on your network

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted Something like multi-library support for self-hosted music? Trying to recreate iPod feel
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    6 months ago 100%

    I realize it's not a satisfactory solution, since you won't be able to use facilities like artist/album/etc to explore.

    But in navidrome I think you can make a smart playlist based on file path, which you could use to include all of YOUR songs in the playlist if it is in a different root path.

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted Feishin: An open source self-hosted music player that can connect to your Navidrome and Jellyfin libraries
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    7 months ago 100%

    Anyone with Navidrome should consider trying this. It provides a means to create & modify the smart playlists graphically & makes it easier to rate songs with stars vs the web UI

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted What does your current setup look like?
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    7 months ago 100%

    Responding to myself...

    Datasheet reports 7.05 idle watts (~11w at active random read) so depending on what it considers idle, it'd be 8*7.05|11= 56.4:88W

    Server clocks in at ~102W. Halving the drives would reduce the power by 27 : 43%

    And in theory other components (motherboard, CPU...) must be using anywhere from (102-88) :(102-56.4)= 14 : 45.6 W.

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted What does your current setup look like?
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    7 months ago 100%

    Thanks! I need to look more into what the power implications of 8 drives is - they never spin down, so I assume they are a non-trivial portion of my power consumption.

    That said, I've been considering upgrading to something recent and low power anyways. It would be a good opportunity to sneak in some useful features too,

    • Maybe the possibility of transcoding a video stream
    • USB3 (not a huge deal)
    • Non VGA display (useful, for when connection issues arise)
    • Audio jack (I could use navidrome jukebox mode!)

    Which the old hardware wouldn't support without adapters, cards, etc.

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    • Server - Desktop Tower

      • Build - Intel server board & CPU based on old serverbuild naskiller guide
        • OS on SSD
        • ZFS ON 8 6TB DRIVES, YIELDING ~36TB of storage, recoverable with up to two failed drives
      • Runs (via docker)
        • Navidrome (webui used daily @ work, dsub on phone, feishin on desktop)
        • Jellyfin (used almost exclusively locally on my TV, occasionally to watch with friends on web)
        • Nextcloud (used occasionally, mostly backs up password files, etc or to share. Thinking about replacing.)
        • QBitTorrent with glutun VPN
        • Audiobookshelf - used frequently for audiobooks. Occasionally for podcasts. Often more convenient to use antennapod/pocket casts on phone for active podcasts)
        • Kavitas - used seldom. Thinking about stopping. I like using obps on my rooted kindle to access my library.
        • Changedetection.io -watch some sites for new products, etc
        • Kiwix (local wikipedia copy I use shortcuts in FF locally to search for things)
        • Homepage (local links I use on local machines to my services)
    • Raspberry pi

      • Adguard home & unbound - block most garbage for any traffic from my home

    Thoughts - I'm considering downsizing. I don't really need all that much space, and it can be a headache at times. With drive replacement costs on top of power (~$320 a year) I consider either going to a vps or downsizing to what could run on a small compute like the n100 or a raspberry pi5, etc.

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  • memes Memes Raising prices you say? Oh that's too bad.
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    7 months ago 100%

    I can't speak for any specific version - but for awhile it was the same for me, but they eventually made a WebOS official release so I no longer have to fuss with developer mode.

    Since it can't reach the Internet since that point ( maybe a year ago?) I can't vouch for if any update would have broken that

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    7 months ago 95%

    WebOS app for me has been working like a champ for a long while now. It's so nice that it just works with my existing remote and everything.

    Blocked all traffic to my TV at the router except local, and now it's a beautiful, free beast. Love the jellyfin crew.

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  • linux Linux What's (are) the funniest/stupidest way(s) you've broken your linux setup?
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    8 months ago 100%

    I'll happily say I must have overlooked something, but I did try using update-alternatives. I don't remember all the nuts and bolts from the start, but it involves python3 and distribution upgrades. I spent a good number of nights over the years trying to unmess it up, and am happy to never think about it ever again.

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  • linux Linux What's (are) the funniest/stupidest way(s) you've broken your linux setup?
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    Installed python3 before it was made the native python on the dist. Half broke everything, including apt & python. So I uninstalled it, and then everything was broken. Finally got python3 reinstalled, and lived with it kindof working & awful distribution updates.

    I have finally freed myself of that prison last month, by nuking everything and starting fresh.

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted pooling media libraries - like distributed storage
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    9 months ago 100%
    1. Nothing like a sonic analysis that I know of jellyfin.
    2. Never had issues with x265 other than for devices that don't have the computation power to decompress. Direct play to my TV with 4K streams have always been excellent.
    3. It could heavily limit apps, but you could use authentik/authelia to enable access to jellyfin, so external access requires MFA. Internally apps could access the local IP normally without authentik. But bouncing off authentik first would likely prevent most (all?) Apps from working externally - you'd likely only have the webui externally. Can't think of a solid solution until Jellyfin natively supports 2FA
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    9 months ago 100%

    I know you want a single 'yes' for the whole package which is fair, and Jellyfin doesn't offer all of these things, but I'll at least mention:

    • A dedicated music app?

      • Its FOSS and there are several excellent apps in my experience worth looking into. I absolutely love feishin (for jellyfin or navidrome). On android I've liked finamp and Gelli.
    • Music filtering/smart playlists?

      • smart playlists - Not that I know of
    • Sonic analysis?

      • not that I know of
    • Good 4k/x265 performance?

    • I actually am not sure what issues you have here. Are you talking about transcoding it? I most often use native play and so long as the device receiving x265 can handle it I've never had issues

    • Has a third party (or built in) utility that shows me streaming usage per person?

    • Allows me to limit remote users to streaming from a single IP address at a time?

      • single IP, I am not sure. But you can limit the number of simultaneous connections they can have (e.g. only one stream, etc). I realize that doesn't have the same exact result in edge cases.
    • Let’s me watch something together with another remote user?

      • Yes. Syncplay exists on it. I have had good experiences with both users in browsers app. But on webos TV app it doesn't work for me.
    • Has an app for most any device (like Plex or Emby) that does NOT require sideloading?

      • Pretty sure they have webos/android TV apps, android, iOS, a desktop player, web interface. I have first hand experience with android, web interface, Linux/windows, webos. There is a roku app, but I don't knknow if it requires sideloading.
    • Has built in native DVR steaming/recording support? Jellyfin DVR capabilities exist, but I can't speak to them.

    • Two factor authentication? Unfortunately, not. I think there are hack ways to pass it through other validators/credentials, but I agree it needs native support of some kind.

    For the music gripes - honestly, navidrome IMO. If folks are happy with experience with Plex for everything, I am happy for them, but libraries specialized for media types can have big benefits and focused features.

    • Video: Jellyfin (or Plex)
    • Music: Navidrome
    • Audiobooks: audiobookshelf
    • Podcasts: still searching. I partially use Audiobookshelf here but don't love it for podcasts.
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  • selfhosted Selfhosted What happens to my instance if my domain expires?
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    9 months ago 100%

    Is .com fixed in some way to prevent the same scaling? I thought it was basically the domain sellers increasing the prices year over year

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  • linux Linux What distros have you tried and thought, "Nope, this one's not for me"?
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    9 months ago 100%

    Its a meme at this point, but I tried to install arch. Ran into display issues during install and couldn't progress. Gave up and did Ubuntu instead.

    I know there's supposed to be some helper stuff out there now to make it go smoothly, but don't think I am motivated enough to retry ever.

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    9 months ago 100%

    Fire force definitely sexualized tamaki. The whole 'lucky lewd' skits and everything.

    Another very good one that I don't recall anything questionable from is Aldnoah Zero, which I frequently recommend to folks

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  • gaming Gaming Nomic, one of the best concepts of a game I've seen
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    asklemmy Asklemmy Any Interesting (**Not** Disturbing) Podcasts?
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    mildlyinfuriating Mildly Infuriating I'm locked out of my 6 year old Chipotle account because they now say my email address is invalid when I login. Here is me asking for their help:
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    9 months ago 96%

    I feel like using a@[IPv6:2001:db8::1] is asking for trouble everywhere online.

    But its tempting to try out, not many people would expect this.

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  • linux Linux Is linux good for someone tech illererate.
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    9 months ago 100%

    In fairness, I frequently forgot my steamdeck root password, because the need to use it was so few and far between. If you're always in game mode, then there's almost 0 reason that I'd need my password.

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  • news News One in five young Americans think the Holocaust is a myth
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    So it seems like it's not really that there are fewer surviving holocaust victims; rather that for some reason holocaust deniers already existed (in sufficient quantity) & are somehow influential enough to pass that belief along to a substantial number of youths, so it persists.

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    This doesn't make sense to me. If you go through history class, you don't have verifiable proof of nearly anything, you have a textbook. I'm not questioning the existence of the first president of the US, the civil war, ww1, etc. No first party sources ever came to verify them to me. Maybe I question if something played out exactly the same, but I trust big events happened.

    So why specifically is the holocaust a myth? Or does 20% of the population just think all history is made up, and the holocaust denial is a symptom?

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  • nottheonion Not The Onion Woman Enters MRI Machine With a Gun, Gets Shot in Butt
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    FWIW, in the US, seems like you're 'guaranteed' that you'll keep 30 hours worth of minimum wage per week. the minimum wage is abysmal, so ~870 a month, which isn't really enough to survive on in many places. I suspect it would be terribly difficult to pay rent, gas/electric, buy food, pay for public transport and/or gas.

    I think this person was dumb. I think they fucked up badly. I think garnishment could make sense if the terms were more reasonable. But I think the current terms could absolutely be detrimental to ones survival.

    Title III also protects individuals by limiting the amount of earnings that may be garnished in any workweek or pay period to the lesser of 25 percent of disposable earnings or the amount by which disposable earnings are greater than 30 times the Federal minimum hourly wage prescribed by Section 6(a) (1) of the Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938. This limit applies regardless of how many garnishment orders an employer receives. The Federal minimum wage is $7.25 per hour. Source

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  • aboringdystopia A Boring Dystopia amazon anti union posters put up by the company
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    12 months ago 100%

    Many states ban vote solicitation and signs within 50-200 ft of polling locations. I'm sure it's only for state+ level votes, but it seems to me like having signs saying to vote NO directly on and adjacent to the voting machine for a legally protected union vote should be not legal...

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    1984 HotChickenFeet 1 year ago 100%
    How can you participatë?

    Sew contentment by obeying the rules, obviously

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    1984 HotChickenFeet 1 year ago 100%
    Of course candy coated marbles are my favorite

    Like seriously, what can't you do with them? you can .. * Whittle your friends down in a game of marbles. * Have a nice treat and suck on the marbles. * You can even give them to your enemies as snacks, and watch them bite glass. and ... * Ship them in a box. * Insert them into... places. * Launch them as projectiles. * Entertain guests. * New and clever ways to use marbles. * Cleverly fill a sock with them to use as a weapon. * Everybody loves marbles. also... * Use them as impromptu slippery caltrops. * Surely youve been convinced candy coated marbles are the best ? more on me ... * Recently i won a set of beautiful marbles. * Even though there's only two. * Seen many, but these ones are a beautiful cyan hue. * I hope to win more marbles. * So i can candy coat them. * To add to my wonderful collection !

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    1984 HotChickenFeet 1 year ago 100%
    Mods: can you be banned for your thought crimes, or are you the 1%

    Genuinely curious if mods can circumvent the rules, or if they will be silenced for their thought crimes. Lemme see a violation post!

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    news World News Electronic Frontier Foundation shouted out Lemmy, Kbin, and Mastodon in their Reddit coverage today: What Reddit Got Wrong
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    Because their intent is to force people to use their native applications. They're intentionally making it difficult/impossible for third party apps to exist. They're wagering that their clout surpasses the bad-will they'll get for the crummy move.

    Then they can bombard everyonr with "he gets you" ads or whatever the most recent ad garbage is, and get their full revenue.

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  • selfhosted Selfhosted What are YOU self-hosting?
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    1 year ago 100%

    36 TB server:

    • Nextcloud (a little heavier than I'd like considering something that's just filesharing)
    • Jellyfin
    • Audiobookshelf
    • Kavita
    • Authentik
    • N.eko with protection via authentik (rabbit clone so I can watch things with friends even if it's not on jellyfin)
    • Homepage so I can remember everything -_-

    Raspberry pi:

    • Adguard home, which router pushes all traffic dns through
    • Mopidy - hooked the pi to my speakers, can start playing via web interface. Don't love it, but it's working.
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  • ukraine Ukraine Russian frontline security unit executes retreating Russian soldiers. -NSFW
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    Russia/ussr has some history of this, I wonder if this is a one time thing, or they're re-enacging part of this "motivational" policy now.

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Order_No._227

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  • linux Linux Which Tiling Window Managers do you like, and why?
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    I too would be interested to know what plugins you use.

    I love i3 and have used it for years and find myself fruitlessly using the most common keybinds in windows at work.

    But my gripes over i3 are:

    • If I don't know the name of the command, say a specific settings window, etc - then I'm hosed if I need it.
    • It doesn't come with a lock screen by default, you need a plugin for it
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