ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
A person's perception is highly informed by how well or poorly they understand the subject or situation in question.
Let's say you got stood up by a first date because they got hit by a car on their way to you. Your perception of them is going to vary wildly depending on whether or not you know the facts behind why they didn't show up.
Similarly, knowing how you actually fit into things at your job - i.e. your importance to your working group, the company, it's customers, society itself, allows you to have a more accurate set of facts to base your perception on.
So yes, the truth matters.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
I'm going to have to disagree with you on this.
People have all sorts of beliefs that can qualitatively be proven as right or wrong. For example, all the wingnuts who believe that the COVID vaccine has trackers from Microsoft. Their beliefs are 100% bereft of reality.
Now, can they go ahead and act on those mistaken beliefs? Sure. But that doesn't make their beliefs correct in any way.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
While I get that this is an article geared to laymen/the general public, I do think we should be holding science communication to a higher standard.
I agree with you 100%.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
It's perfectly possible to have both a reasonable salary as well as intrinsic satisfaction.
However, I will say that getting both of those characteristics together is far more likely with a skilled job compared to an unskilled job (i.e. jobs that require specific training and/or degrees).
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
It's worth pointing out that feeling like you work in a pointless, meaningless job doesn't necessarily make it true. This paper is solely about people's perceptions, not facts.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 97%
A light breeze is enough for Google to lock accounts, and they make it nearly impossible to re-access. And they have no reliable customer service you can call or email.
But the final straw for me was when they started this bullshit of saying "tell me your phone number so we can make sure it's you". They never had my number in the first place, so it was clear that this was pure bullshit of them trying to associate real world identities with their accounts.
After that, I said "fuck em", changed to other providers, and haven't look back since.
Go ahead and delete my accounts - your service is pure garbage anyway.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
You won't find that level of detail in typical articles, because they are intended for the general public and are intended to be an overview that a layman can comprehend.
However, the paper itself, which the article links to, has more detail including deformation testing.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 11%
Believe it or not, you're the one being racist now - by painting all of the US and all Americans with the same brush.
You don't hear about all the people that are perfectly fine folks and all the places that aren't insane because that makes boring news. So the only news you hear about are the whackjobs and bottom-feeders like this.
Don't make the same mistake of judging an entire country by a partial set of facts because that puts your feet on the first steps of the same path the people in this article walked.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
I understand what you're saying completely. I'm not even saying that I disagree with you - to be honest, I'm not quite sure what to think about this circumstance.
However, I will say that there are limits to being lax on someone just because they are a child. This was a serious offense that could have cost multiple people their lives and a serious response is justifiably warranted.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
If we were talking about shoplifting, sure. This case is more serious, however, and I'm not sure the same approach would be taken under the circumstances.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 66%
Your issue is that she's still there? The article implies that this only happened yesterday, so she's only been there for 1 day. That's not unreasonable for a felony.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
This entire topic is about shortening the work week without any loss in pay.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 90%
Have you not been reading articles on this topic? Yes, we are talking about a 32 hour work week with no loss in pay.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
Two things to consider are:
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In my hypothetical, I did say that these were androids which could convincingly emulate personalities and human behavior. In other words, they would be capable of fulfilling psychological and emotional sides of a relationship.
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The dating scene is particularly rough for men at the moment for various reasons. The internet's effect on social activities magnifies that, and the shift to work-from-home has made it worse.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 85%
Changes have to be made in the pay scale first, and then we can remove tipping...
I understand what you're saying, but that's just not how things work. As long as tipping is the norm, that pay scale will never change.
The only way it will change is if tipping stops and restaurants find themselves with no staff because they can no longer hire anyone for $2/hour.
Sometimes, communal sacrifice is the only way to get bad practices to change. I agree with you that it hurts, but the simple fact is that restaurants will not stop underpaying staff unless they are forced to.
And attempts to put this into law was fought by the servers themselves because enough of them make more money off of tips than they would from a straight salary.
So it's just not going to happen unless society forces their hand by saying "no, this is ridiculous" and stops paying extra for everything.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 85%
It shows 5 if you scan w14.monkrus.ws.
And this is Quttera's analysis here:
https://quttera.com/detailed_report/w14.monkrus.ws
Whether there is a real problem or not, it might be something the monkrus admins want to look into in order to address it.
But if anyone else has a better understanding of what's going on with their site, I'd love to hear it and it's probably good information for the rest of this sub.
For the last month or two, my AV blocks their site because it detected a ScrInject.B trojan. And yes, it's the correct site (monkrus.ws). VirusTotal also shows 4 security vendors register it as malicious. Are these all false positives or is monkrus's site no longer trustworthy?
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
There's nothing absurd about it. Your ignorance doesn't make your perspective valid.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 0%
What a load of BS. Where did I say that unrealistic standards referred to basic hygiene and the ability to enjoy being out of the house?
You're making up imaginary statements and then refuting them. Try improving your reading comprehension.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 66%
The two authors and their editor need to go back to school and re-learn what an order of magnitude is.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
I find regular briefs to be the most comfortable.
You pointed out one of the issues with boxer-briefs, and regular boxers is like throwing a random wad of fabric down there and finding new ways of being uncomfortable throughout the day.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 33%
JFC, the answer to your question is literally the first sentence of the article. It would have taken you less time to read it then to post your question.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 33%
For the last month or two, my AV blocks their site because it detected a ScrInject.B trojan.
And yes, it's the correct site (monkrus.ws).
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 15%
The size of a person's household or whether they live in the city are not the sole factors that go into a decision on what car to purchase.
A person can live alone but regularly car pool with coworkers, get together with multiple friends, go on day trips with family, or make extra income by driving for Uber (larger vehicles can charge more). Heck, sometimes just needing extra leg or head room rules out most regular sedans and makes an SUV more comfortable.
In addition, if a person's activities require a lot of cargo capacity, that essentially leaves you with either an SUV or a pickup as the primary options. So whether it's for luggage, buying stock for a family store, etc... that could be another reason for purchasing an SUV.
Sometimes, people feel that having a higher view of the road is safer because they can see more of what's ahead of them.
So don't fall prey to judging people as only needing an SUV if they have a large household or live in rural areas. It's a lot more involved than that.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 33%
Not that enriched if you're trying to insult people with "OK, Boomer".
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 80%
That's an excellent point and very true.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 90%
Who actually gives a fuck?
A lot of people do.
What Reddit has done and is doing is very big news due to their size and the role they play on the internet. Just because you have a teenager's snarky "who cares" attitude doesn't mean that this isn't important to a large portion of the online population, including many of the people who left reddit and came here.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 50%
Understandtable, but if that's all it is, then there are already aggregate search websites.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 33%
Searching through that app still requires a plugin, and all the plugins I saw just seemed to be related to specific sites anyway - so you might as well just search on those sites.
Or is there a plugin that stands out over the rest?
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 77%
You and everyone else in the fediverse needs to stop with this fanaticism that anything centralized is automatically a bad thing.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 87%
I gave up completely on Google accounts after they kept flagging make-believe security issues and made it near impossible to verify that it's yours.
Even if you have a secondary email configured (and this would be what it's for) - but oh, no, that's still not good enough for them.
Then they pulled the utter bullshit of requiring your phone number "so they can make sure it's you" - but since there was never a phone number associated with the account, this is clearly nothing more than a data grab so they can associate real identities with their accounts.
That was the last straw for me, and I decided that their service was utter garbage, completely unreliable, and not worth using anymore.
In recent years, the dating scene for men has declined and degraded in quality for any number of reasons - dating apps commodifying relationships, women developing unrealistic standards, etc... If sexbots were to come to market which could convincingly emulate personalities and human behavior, would you completely switch over to them and stop trying to date real women? Or would sexbots just be an occasional "fling" or something you would avoid entirely?
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
A U-Haul doesn't need to achieve those speeds in order to kill multiple people in a single surge.
As for what's on what level, it all depends on the context. If we're talking about one-on-one violence, then a gun is no more deadly than a knife assuming that there isn't a significant difference between the two people involved.
If we're talking one person killing several, then a gun has an advantage at range while a knife has an advantage at close distances.
My original points still hold - if one person is trying to kill another, then that's the problem, not the tool that's used. Putting the blame on the tool is an ultimately fruitless endeavor - people can and will always be able to find another tool. The fact that people are getting murderous in the first place is what the real problem is.
The US cohabitated with guns for many years without mass shootings being nearly the epidemic that it currently is. There was no significant change in guns themselves that led to that change in mass shootings. But you know what did change? The internet came along.
The internet makes it really easy for someone with dark thoughts to find an echo chamber with a hundred contemptible numbnuts egging them on to do whatever they were contemplating doing.
Addressing that will be far more effective then trying to ban any particular tool. Take away guns? Then people will drive vehicles into crowds. Take away cars? Then people will make bombs. Take away explosives? Then people will use poison. Take away poisons? Then people will learn how to make bioweapons in their garage.
It's not about the tool. It's about thinking it's okay to murder someone just because you don't like them.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 0%
Doesn't really factor into this because if that's what you want, there are other ways. People rent trucks and drive them into crowds, but that doesn't mean that U-Haul is evil.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
No, endocrine disrupting chemicals - which include pesticides, bisphenols, and phthalates.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 83%
Sequestering is absolutely not bullshit. It's done for very important reasons and judges are very careful about not ordering it unless it's truly necessary.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 0%
That has to do with how she behaved as a human being, not what tool she used. She could just have easily have stabbed him in the neck or strangled him with her purse strap.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
You have given zero information that we need to offer relevant advice. You haven't told us your gender or the gender of your partner, what your ages are, what your respective experience levels are, what you normally like to do, etc...
Any specific advice anyone tries to give you would be nothing more than throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks.
If you want good answers, you need to provide more information.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
If you look at the nesting, you'll see that I wasn't responding to you, but to Hillock.
I actually agreed with your post. :)
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
If you have chosen to hide NSFW content, then what do you care if people who have it enabled have it as part of their feed?
What do you think the point is of subscribing to a sub is if it isn't incorporated into your feed? You are literally asking to break how kbin is designed to work.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
No one is saying that blurring shouldn't be an option - just that it should either be tied to a user's NSFW setting or that it should be a user-selectable option.
ShadowRunner 1 year ago • 100%
There is no reason why blurred thumbnails can't easily be made into a user-selectable feature. That makes everyone happy.
So let me start off by saying that I recognize that there was initially a genuine problem with people who didn't want NSFW content being exposed to it. Some of this was due to the fact that not all content was being correctly flagged as NSFW, and some of it was because a lot of users didn't realize that individual users can choose to completely block an entire instance - which is not only a very easy and fast solution, but also does not require an all-or-nothing approach of defederating from NSFW instances. A number of changes were made, but some of those lingering changes have meant that people who *do* want to see NSFW content are not because: 1. Even having subscribed to several NSFW subs, they are effectively completely missing from my feed. 2. Most NSFW thumbnails are blurred. Both of these behaviors should not be occurring if a user has chosen in their settings to NOT hide NSFW content. However, I will also say that the blurred state is something that deserves its own user setting (i.e. so that a user can choose to NOT hide NSFW, but still want them blurred or not) - preferably with the granularity to set it for various sub-types of NSFW (e.g. porn, gore, etc...).
As kbin is so new, there is no equivalent to RES (Reddit Enhancement Suite) yet. However there is an easy way to switch user accounts - at least for those of you using Firefox. One of the official Mozilla extensions for Firefox is this: **Firefox Multi-Account Containers** [https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/multi-account-containers/](https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/multi-account-containers/) Essentially, this lets you create and use multiple browser "containers", where each container has its own set of cookies completely segregated from the others. That means you can create one container where you are logged into kbin under your regular account, another container where you are logged into your NSFW account, another container where you are logged in under your moderator account, etc... It's also very helpful for any other sites where you have multiple accounts and want a convenient way to switch between them (i.e. Google Mail, etc...). You can easily switch between containers - **which takes effect ONLY on that browser window, not universally**. That means you can be logged into kbin, Gmail, or any place else - simultaneously under multiple accounts (i.e. one browser window has gmail logged in under your personal account, while another browser window has gmail logged in under your work account).
I'll start with a very common misunderstanding that I very rarely see discussed, due to its delicate nature: Aggression and violence. I find that women almost never have a good understanding of men's relationship with aggression and violence. When women associate it with us, it's almost always strongly negative. And while the concept of abuse exists, that's not what I'm talking about. Let me put a caveat that this is something that, as a man, I have an innate understanding of - but have never needed to discuss, so I'm struggling to describe it and will probably fumble a bit at accurately getting this out. Men and women are wired differently with respect to our place in the world, how we have evolved, our natural abilities, etc... Evolutionarily, men have typically been the hunters and warriers, and women have typically been gatherers and caretakers. This has led to having different traits and attributes that allow us to contribute better to our respective roles. For example, early women spent much time around camp gathering needed supplies such as fruit, nuts, wood, water, as well as tending to fires and cooking, as well as cleaning animal skins. While performing all of these tasks, they also needed to keep an eye on children to make sure they stayed safe. It was critical that they develop the ability to multitask well in order to be able to switch their attention across all of these tasks. And that ability and tendency to multitask has carried through evolution to be one of their strengths today. By contrast, for men, being able to concentrate on a single task was essential for hunting, fishing, and fighting. Tracking prey, waiting in a secluded spot for prey to show up, or ambushing enemy warriers requires hours of concentration and focus. These things had to be done quietly, without making noise or talking, and with a high degree of concentration in order to not miss the opportunity to strike. Failure to do this would mean the loss of food, or death as a result of your enemy detecting your presence. Take that lifestyle over millions of years, and that results in a sharpened ability to quietly focus on a single subject for long periods of time, not to mention solitary behavior - both traits which are observable in men across the world. This ability is one of men's typical strengths today. Well, that evolutionary relationship with being a hunter and warrier coupled with the genetic predisposition of higher strength also translates to having a different relationship with aggression and violence. For example, boys learn early on how easily we can hurt others if we are not careful. So most men learn to control that side of us and to avoid fights when possible. But at the same time, when there is a heightened confrontation, there is often an implied threat of the violence they are capable of. This is not necessarily overt - it can be subtle and very importantly, **it can exist even when there is very little chance or intention of things going that far**. It's very hard to describe the subtle ways this can exist in our lives. If we're in public with our young kids, and a group of strange teenage boys are roughhousing without paying attention or caring about who they are near and they get too close to our kids, a woman might call out to them "Hey! Settle down!" or "Take it somewhere else!". By contrast, a man might not say a word and simply stand up while glaring at those teens. The unspoken and primal body language is "You are starting to become a threat to my children. If you threaten my children, I will beat all of you into the ground." Often, the teenage boys will immediately notice and, conciously or subconciously, recognize that they have gone too far, and back off - even if they pretend to not notice in order to save face. But part of what that translates to is women often misinterpreting men's relationship with aggression and violence with being an abuser, which is **NOT EVEN REMOTELY** the same thing. A lot of men may take out an extreme amount of frustration and anger on an inanimate object. If they have a home gym, they might take it out on a heavy-bag, but some of them will simply punch a table, etc... There are many cases where men have learned to do this as a habit to release heavy tension as a way of safely letting it go. But women will often misunderstand and say "if they'll punch a table when they're angry, it's only a matter of time before they punch you". This is a very strong leap to a conclusion that is often highly incorrect. I've known many men throughout my life that will punch a wall, but would never lay a hand on another person in anger. However, this distinction is lost for most women. Since women are wired differently, they lack that first-person understanding of men's relationship with aggression, so I absolutely understand why they do this. But it doesn't change the fact that they are often mis-judging men due to that lack of understanding. I will also put in a caveat that some men do lack legitimate control and are abusers. I am not, in any way, trying to excuse their behavior. What I am saying is that many women lack the understanding to tell the difference between abusers versus men who are less reserved about letting their tension out but who would never lay a finger on them.
How do I prevent NSFW thumbnails from being blurred? I've been through the settings and can't find a way to disable this. It was working fine the other day, but now they're all blurred. How do I change this?