asklemmy Ask Lemmy To the girls here: what action or social behaviour/etiquette you think you can get away doing/not doing that you couldn't if you were a man?
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    Mango
    2 hours ago 100%

    I didn't say emotions were a weakness. They're actually a defense mechanism. You kinda describe it like a production line run by robots that you totally can't stop. Just let them make their products.

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  • adhd ADHD memes And then they don't stop after I say "I get it" a few times. 💀
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    Mango
    6 hours ago 100%

    That doesn't sound like something I can convince my co-workers to do, and it probably won't change them any.

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    workreform Work Reform Harris wants to end subminimum wages for disabled workers—if they're not behind bars
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    Mango
    8 hours ago 100%

    Right? Imagine thinking you're Mister Big macho business guy but in reality other desperate people are just letting you leech from them.

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    Mango
    8 hours ago 100%

    Sounds very similar to my, "I have something relevant and important to say and you're moving past the past where it's relevant!" And it's always with someone who acts like I'm always interrupting when actually they are constantly interrupting.

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    Mango
    9 hours ago 100%

    Not needing to eat would definitely be a huge strength.

    Having a pawn attack a square near your king is a weakness. Being an air hockey player should mean that doesn't matter.

    Crying IS the mental breakdown. It's what you do when you need someone else's help because you can't do it yourself(weakness).

    The problem here is that people prey on you when they see that weakness, and a civilized society should not do this. The problem here is that we're developing all of the tools for a civilized society and putting them into the hands of predators. A weakness is only a problem when it's being exploited. This is why I oppose usage of things that give our predatory "leaders" leverage against us that we can't escape. Surveillance bad. Censorship bad. Detention bad.

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    Mango
    9 hours ago 100%

    I don't really know what pretty feels like. Closest allegory I've got is "got to be good looking cuz you're so hard to please!" And I am certainly hard to please.

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    Mango
    10 hours ago 50%

    I don't know hope you're coming to any of your conclusions. What do you think the word weakness means? Also coping.

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    asklemmy Ask Lemmy To the girls here: what action or social behaviour/etiquette you think you can get away doing/not doing that you couldn't if you were a man?
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    Mango
    11 hours ago 66%

    Anything I do because I have to rather than because I want to is a weakness. A need is a weakness. It's a vector of attack that I've gotta defend. Crying isn't something I want to do, but is compulsive.

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    Mango
    13 hours ago 66%

    Views do gotta change, but it's not like crying isn't showing a weakness. It is showing weakness. The problem is life is a competitive environment where you're not allowed to compete in any way other than financially where you're at the same disadvantage as a gambler in a casino.

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    asklemmy Ask Lemmy To the girls here: what action or social behaviour/etiquette you think you can get away doing/not doing that you couldn't if you were a man?
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    Mango
    13 hours ago 80%

    One time I was in these girls' dorm after a party and one of them was really focusing on her homework and jamming to some nice tunes. It was such a good vibe that I was apparently just kinda staring at her for like 15 minutes and she thought it was creepy. Now lofi girl is a thing, but it's not quite as good as the real thing.

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    Mango
    13 hours ago 87%

    Not only do I feel like it's a terrible idea to show that weakness, but if I actually do it everyone around me will reinforce why I shouldn't.

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    Mango
    13 hours ago 66%

    Hey everyone! I'm an adult too! You can refer to me as 'his lordliness' and I expect to be treated as such.

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  • nottheonion Not The Onion Bystanders, cop shot as NYPD opens fire on alleged fare-beater in Brooklyn subway
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    Mango
    13 hours ago 69%

    OR MAYBE DON'T FUCKING STALK AND THREATEN SOMEONE OVER 3 FUCKIN DOLLARS.

    MAYBE DON'T BE THE PEOPLE WHO INSPIRE MORE FEAR THAN ANYONE ELSE IN THE COUNTRY AND PEOPLE WON'T BE IN FIGHT OR FLIGHT MODE AROUND YOU.

    Do you think that guy just goes around running at anyone with knives, or just the people who got paid $50m to bully the population over a $200k deficit?

    This is a police manufactured problem. Attack the source to solve it.

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    Mango
    14 hours ago 83%

    Seems to me like charging the police with a knife is just performing a public service now. It takes balls too.

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    Mango
    14 hours ago 100%

    Freeloaders are the people taking up dramatically more resources than the value one human can produce.

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    Mango
    14 hours ago 100%

    Can we all just use a "bad browser" that isn't "as good" as these exploitative mainstream browsers by specifically giving up on websites that require a browser that exploits us? We shouldn't need to be exploited.

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    Mango
    14 hours ago 100%

    We aren't fickle. We adhere very strongly to our principles but it's easier to direct people to a name when they aren't interested in understanding why.

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  • games Games Final Fantasy 16 producer Naoki Yoshida asks that modders please don't run amok with 'offensive or inappropriate' shenanigans now the game's on PC
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    Mango
    1 day ago 55%

    It'll be a whole different thing for the government to send military against the population. An armed population should be plenty to keep the cops respectful, and cops are the real problem.

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    Mango
    1 day ago 92%

    Author is painting men as needing forgiveness as if we're just crossing lines like it's our nature.

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    Mango
    1 day ago 100%

    Anything and everything kills and dies all the time. Can't suffer if you don't exist my dude. It's this imposing of experiences and stimuli that is bad.

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    EVE Online Mango 2 months ago 88%
    No Lemmy Corp?

    I thought for sure there'd be a group of dudes here running a corp like basically any other media outlet.

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    cincinnati
    Cincinnati, Ohio Mango 7 months ago 40%
    Who wants kittens?

    They're brand new. New enough that the only pictures are super gross, so you can't have a kitten right away. They gotta grow a little.

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    Find a Community Mango 7 months ago 86%
    Is there a community for Android games without dollar signs in-game?

    I'm going completely crazy trying to find games that are just games and not cheap clones of other money making machines.

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    Ask Lemmy Mango 8 months ago 69%
    Can anyone here get Gboard to gesture type "Lemmy"?

    No matter what I do, it's like Gboard is specifically avoiding it. It'll instantly learn any bullshit word I make up like "aprifnid" but can't type "Lemmy". I suspect shenanigans.

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    Ask Lemmy Mango 8 months ago 36%
    Physicists of Lemmy, what is up?

    Like what if I'm in space?

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    Pure Mobile Gaming Mango 1 year ago 50%
    Stardew Valley is a game about settling in a cozy community to build a farm and escape the grind.

    Google play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.chucklefish.stardewvalley It's free with play pass. Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/stardew-valley/id1406710800 This is the first post of the sub so I figured I would start with what's probably the best example of a solid game on mobile. Stardew Valley is pretty famously known as the king of cozy games. It's also available on PC.

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