asklemmy Asklemmy If there was any object in your life that was cursed, what would it be?
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    Daxter101
    3 days ago 91%

    I mean, they didn't bother you guys.

    The guy was just cold, and the gal had a personal moment. Not their fault, that you two little kids were scared of strangers.

    Kidding aside, and assuming what you've written is neither internet-talk nor standard schizophrenia tendencies, it might be carbon monoxide poisoning. It was a phenomenon, with haunted houses very often just having faulty heaters of some kind, causing hallucinations in the right doses.

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    Daxter101
    3 days ago 60%

    Please do not add genAI images to punch up your writing. You might think that it adds a nice little bit of visual pizazz to your content-marketing piece, but what you're actually doing is making it look like content marketing rather than a useful resource. To the extent that content marketing is an effective tactic, it is because you build trust with the customer by providing them valuable information. A genAI turd plopped on top of your writing is a signal that it will be worthless slop.

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    He *did* rule a promise
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    microblogmemes Microblog Memes Mozilla be like:
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    Daxter101
    1 week ago 50%

    To sound (and be) even more pedantic though, any number except one (1) can be dozens, but truly any number can be a number of dozens, as my comment said.

    1 is a number.

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    Daxter101
    2 weeks ago 100%

    Wait has this been a widespread issue? I've only noticed this a couple weeks now, but I thought it was because the cat dropped my deck from the table 😶

    What's going on actually?

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  • world World News Once the envy of the world, Germany's car brands now weigh heavily on its struggling economy
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    world World News Once the envy of the world, Germany's car brands now weigh heavily on its struggling economy
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    Daxter101
    2 weeks ago 93%

    So, to condense the article:

    ::: spoiler German car industry says:

    We are having a tough time! We're thinking of closing our German factories, and ending our "We don't fire people" Guarantee!

    Politicians, please save us by regulating our competitors and exempting us from sales tax on new technologies!

    Why?

    Because our primary source of money before, was selling in China (40% to 50% of earnings), and now Chinese EVs have taken over both China and the local market! So, with our shitty expensive EVs, we can't compete, and, worst of all, China is buying less from us, so we are losing all that money! :::

    Opinion:

    ::: spoiler German car industry means:

    We kept selling to the most vulnerable market and pocketing innovation money, and now we got out-innovated and that market is no longer vulnerable!

    Please give us tax-money and regulate our competitors away, otherwise we will make a political stink, and throw workers on the street! :::

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  • femboy c/femboy behold! my hairless legs!
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    Daxter101
    3 weeks ago 100%

    Is it your first time epilating? How was the pain, relating to that (hypothetical) first time?

    I'm asking because, after some (read: many, many) times, plucking my eyebrows has just completely 100% stopped hurting. Could epilating be kinda the same?

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  • memes memes A nearly comical reminder that corporations aren't your friend.
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    Daxter101
    4 weeks ago 99%

    You can legally kill anyone related to someone who has had Disney+.

    Iirc, the wife died, the husband sued, and they tried to say the husband can't sue because HE had had the subscription a long time ago.

    Each subscriber loses the right to sue for any of their loved ones.

    After all, if they're dead, they can't sue you anyway

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    Daxter101
    1 month ago 100%

    Ghostery got bought, and is now selling your data, while tracker blocking has become a default on Firefox and ublock.

    Just Firefox and Ublock are all you're gonna need, for a long time

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  • socialism Socialism Video on how capitalism produces more than ever could possibly consumed, and so watching consumption is not useful action
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    Daxter101
    1 month ago 100%

    Very cool and dense video.

    So many good ideas, in an incredibly short and efficient format.

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  • politics politics The Weird Authoritarian Book Blurbed by JD Vance
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    Daxter101
    1 month ago 100%

    I know you might be joking for hyperbole, but still. If you burn it, you can't read what runs through their and their friends' head, and you lose the historical value of having access to this period's political pulse later.

    And I don't think these books turn people fascist. They only consolidate them.

    If we want to stop fascism, part of the solution is stopping the root of the problem, where people become fascists. And our best bet on that is understanding.

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  • world World News Palestinian kills two people in stabbing attack in Israel
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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    Thanks, the thrift idea is probably pretty good. And, as long as something is inside my house, it's plenty safe, so I don't worry about that.

    My actual style, slowly is shifting towards a style between punk and hippie that does exist here (we have a couple of... I think in English they're called squats? Occupations? People take over public buildings for protest, and live in them long term as small semi-communes), with long hair, loose-fitting short sleeved dress shirts, short jeans and piercings.

    To be perfectly honest with you, my masc expression is enjoyable as fuck.

    But, maybe, for that reason, and because of my sense of what non-binary is... This "slight femininity" is not feminine to me. It's a well balanced, healthy masculinity.

    And I love this part of myself.

    ::: spoiler Probably slightly oversharing rant And at the same time, I wanna dye the tips of my hair pink. I wanna skirt go spinny. I want the interesting, chaotic, enormous variety that girl clothes have. And dresses. I want a damned nipple piercing, without being scared of how much it shows through clothes. I wanna be able to hug people without feeling self-conscious, either like I'm inappropriate and invading, or like I'm "socially not understanding the rules" and "not acting like a man". :::

    So yeah. I'm more struggling with gender roles, than aesthetics themselves. But god knows I'd enjoy playing around with the simple joys of it all, in my home at least.

    Thanks for the recommendations and the site, by the way!

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  • progressivepolitics Progressive Politics Just Stop Oil Activists Who Threw Tomato Soup at Van Gogh’s ‘Sunflowers’ Get Prison Time
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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 93%

    Yeah, but, unfortunately,

    1. Your opinion is not unpopular, it's the most common one

    And

    1. This is a proven, and wonderfully effective way to protest. Getting the media to report on things at all, is an enormous, and repeatedly researched driver of discussion and awareness. And the climate emergency is not acted upon enough, and the continued criminal actions of the Oil industry are also painfully underreported.

    I wish from the bottom of my heart this natural sense of justice of yours was the way to solve these issues, but those rich fucks are literally relying on, and fanning the flames of this mental pitfall, to keep people more passive on this issue.

    Data and science says this protest, just like most other protests, works.

    Protest in any way you see fit, different kinds of protest "work" on different people and structures. Just go and actually participate in whichever you believe in.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    ::: spoiler Relevant XKCD Experts overestimating the familiarity of the average person with what they know :::

    I have absolutely 0 idea, I don't know how to name nearly any style whatsoever.

    I need at least a bit of plausible deniability, at least for going outside, because my town is pretty backwards.

    Even my favourite way of putting it up in the house alone, which is in a 10-15-degrees-above-horizontal ponytail, but sideways instead of backwards, which makes me feel really cute, is not really a style I can wear outside.

    I guess the feeling I'd like to get, is this, being cute and bubbly.

    Honestly, now that I think about it, my expectation to wear these outside before you even tell me, is dumb. Just gimme the cutest, girliest, bubbliest style(s?) you got, for exploration and euphoria.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    That is correct, I remember the discourse and comparison between raloxifene and tamoxifen. Their existence sounds very cool.

    Thanks a lot!

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    Pretty long. Curliness makes it not show its full length, and it still hangs below the shoulders. Brushed straight, it just about reaches the end of the ribcage

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    ::: spoiler Vibe of half of this comment: Vee from the Boiling Isles, protectively shouting to someone out of frame:
"Her pronouns are They/Them!!!" :::

    Ok, I recognize the genderfluid identity means many different pronouns might be ok, but your sentence

    on twitter it says her pronouns are he/him

    is just funny to me.

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  • world World News Global methane emissions rising at fastest rate in decades, scientists warn
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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 33%

    The Guardian has dropped the ball a bunch of times.

    A non-name media org is less likely to be a target for rich fucks who want to pay to push their agenda through a big, recognizable, reputable source.

    The bigger the organisation, the greater the chances it will be corrupted, in ways big and small, by rich fucks.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    Ok yeah, I have absolutely no idea where to start other than a feel of how "some ways to put my hair up make me euphoric", so I'd love to talk about it. The styling specifically. I don't have make up and it's scary 🥲

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    Yeah, I am considering it, when I get some more financial stability.

    Specifically, about a new-ish (read: not very well researched yet) hormone, which has estrogen effects all over the body (and mentally), except the breasts where is produces significantly reduced growth (I think F1nn5ter is using it for his transition and was talking about it, though I didn't learn about it from him so I don't know what he said). (Imma look for its name later, and come back to write it if it's hard to find)

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    I feel weird about these kinds of things people say.

    I get it's coming from a kind place, and I guess that for some people it might help and give them strength to keep going, but for me... It feels like being coddled.

    Let me make my position very clear, I'm talking about the conflation of what you are with how you look.

    Not all women look femme. And while OP has expressed in other comments that she has feminine characteristics (while she discounts them, despite being important (hey OP, a feminine voice is a Very feminine thing to have, it might contribute a lot to you being seen as a femboy)), you haven't seen how she looks in order to call how she looks 'femme'.

    ::: spoiler How I personally feel Femme means something specific. I'm a slightly dysphoric enby, who looks more masc than I want, and when people who know, try to tell me I look femme, I (do get euphoric, and then) ask them why. And honestly, if they don't have a good vibe of understanding what they're saying, it feels disingenuous, and it feels bad. Like a confirmation that they don't see the femme parts that are here. :::

    On top of everything else, people could still be in the process of becoming what they want to look like. I personally prefer to hear others' honest impressions, in order to understand how to better change, if I so desire. I guess there's a need for both feedback and validation, and I prefer that each person give of what they actually have to give, what they actually do think.

    ::: spoiler To OP: OP, stay strong, it sounds like you're making some tough decisions, based on your living conditions. I do think that, if you can't actually come out as a trans woman, coming out as a femboy might make you go through 2 easier, but still difficult situations, rather than one very difficult one. Coming out is never over anyway, and details always change in one's life, but do the best your senses tell you you can do, they're usually your best bet, since you know your life. Your gut can take a lot more information in to make a decision, than other people can, or even your logical side can. You sound like you have the perseverance for this. Good luck, and have fun with your journey! :::

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    No longer a mathematical problem, but determine the largest piece that can be removed, before it becomes apparent to onlookers that the leftover pizza has been tampered with.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    Remember the premise, cheating is lying about the situation, and acting on those needs without consent.

    There is no world where that is healthier than whatever mutual agreement the couple could end up in, after honestly sharing their situation.

    If the care for the needs of the child is real and actually shared between the parents, anything ranging from a sexually open marriage, to a divorce with uninterrupted coparenting, is leagues better than pretending you want to be there while actually both having a bad time around your child's other parent, and constantly lying.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 100%

    So, there was a community called "non voters", created by MindTraveller?

    Ada locked it down for not confirming with the spirit of the instance (I'm going to shallowly read into the name of the community, and say that the lock seems fair, from the outside).

    Then, it reads to me like MindTraveller made another community, which was also taken down, and got him banned along with it.

    Why did those things happen? Why was a second community made? Why was it banned? Why are you claiming that it was an unfair ban?

    Honestly, if those points aren't clarified, Ada appears to be really reasonable from a bystander's perspective.

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    Daxter101
    2 months ago 98%

    I also have always wanted to sleep in a huge dog bed but, unfortunately

    Summer

    I'm already suffering the tyranny of sweating all my liquids out twice a night, this would add a whole extra dimension of heat (pun not intended)

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    mintgoth: just learned that the word "ferret" is derived from the Latin word *furittus* meaning "LITTLE THIEF" and that a group of ferrets is called a BUSINESS and i am absolutely pleased with this new knowledge insomniac-arrest: I am enriched by this knowledge, thank you

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    Uuhhh... help with new cat meeting old cat, or soothe me please

    ::: spoiler Day 1, panicked cry for help Hello, I hope it's ok to not post a picture, I'm quite a mess right now. I lack sleep, and I'm stressed, and just stopping panicking, lying down to write this and sleep. I just brought home, on somewhat of a whim, the goodest and most communicative little boy cat from the street (he looks around or less than 6 months). And I already have a lovely, cranky, scaredy cat of a 6 year old lady (sterilised). I made the assumed mistake of letting them meet face to face as soon as I unlocked the door to the apartment. Anya (old lady cat) froze, and left, scared, and went to her room with her litterbox, and has stayed there since. The Boy, I left a bit around the apartment, to make sure he actually *wants* to stay instead of going back to the street (he loves it), took him outside and back once so he could emergency shit because he didn't like the sand in the second litterbox I prepared (maybe too little, I'll get more tomorrow), and now I've closed him in the WC, with a good-sized box with his new fluffy blanket, food and water for a day, and the insufficient but untouched litterbox. And he is very happy in his box, in the closed room. But in between all that, were the incidents: A couple of times, The Boy went into Anya's room, found her, sat far away, curled his tail around his feets, and slow-blinked at her. She was not accepting. Deep-mewls, staying as far as possible (cornered), raised hairs on tail, tail circling around her side not touching her body, lowered ears, wide eyes. He respected the distance. I put _him_ in the bathroom, closed the door, put _her_ food outside the door to the bathroom. Left him to relax (he is, he is fine). Sat with her in her room for half an hour, so she would relax. She did a bit. Still hasn't left her room, but came for pets after a while, in her room. So. Given how unprepared I am for this, and how much I love both kittens, what tips do you have for me? What to be careful of? The situation is not ideal. Is there any condition, where I should be prepared to send The Boy to be an outside cat, for the better of everyone? I'm dying of sleepiness, ask anything, and any help is welcome. Thank you so much for even reading all this. Now I'm gonna sleep, and I'll be back in the morning. ::: Day 2 update edit: Okay, everything is smoother now. Further updates in body for everyone interested, but thanks a lot either way, all this info was pretty helpful, directly or indirectly, and just writing this all down has helped ***immensely*** with my maddening anxiety with this whole situation. The boy got vet-ted, he has nothing serious, just a little snot for which I'll be giving him a small antibiotics treatment. ::: spoiler good boy spiel He is a very good boy, smartest and most communicative and trusting cat I've ever met, and even after the messy vet visit, he still repeatedly chose to come back with me whenever I gave him the choice of returning where I found him, or even just outside the building. No, he wants to be here. That fact helped me calmed down ***a lot***. ::: ::: spoiler Current situation Currently, the boy has gorged himself full, from the stress of the vet visit no doubt, and is contently sleeping in his box in the closed bathroom. Anya is walking around the house, generally smelling everything, and paying occasional attention to the bathroom door. She is eating and drinking normally every so often, eyeing warily the faraway but visible door. She no longer looks actively scared or stressed, looking ok enough with the current arrangement. ::: ::: spoiler Short term plans I read Jackson's guides, and they've been really helpful for context and building intuition, but neither my house, nor my situation allow really following them step by step, so we're gonna wing it a bit. I'm going to have each of them inside their own room (different rooms) for a portion of each day, leaving the other one to roam the entire house for that time. Anya evening to noon (play->sleep->job->relax) time, the boy the rest. I'm lucky I have 5 days off work starting today, to give them the attention they need. ::: Once I find out why I can't upload pictures, I will show the kitties off, and give an update on their situation. Thanks everyone!

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    I'm sorry for the bad rule, but rule number rule rule. EDIT: I'm glad people like and are discussing the post. For the record though, I posted this for the funny number lol

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