sciencefiction Science Fiction What are you Reading (September 2023)
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    soben
    1 year ago 92%

    I've been blasting through Broken Earth series by N. K. Jemisin, already on The Stone Sky. So good and captivating. Also reading 'The Yiddish Policeman's Union' by Michael Chabon

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  • dadsonly
    Dads Only soben 1 year ago 95%
    Potty Training

    Our daughter started potty training right before she was 2, and took to it pretty easily. I know boys tend to be more of a challenge, but we're just not sure what to do at this point. Our son started potty training around 2 y 2 months, and it started off going well. He was bottomless at home and mostly doing well. Unfortunately because he's also in preschool/daycare, he was coming home with 1-3 soiled sets of clothes a day. As 2 months wore on, he kept having more and more accidents. If he's wearing _anything_ down there, he would just say "it's a diaper enough" and wasn't even telling us. So, we're in a reset. He's back in diapers, and for the first few days he would still tell us when he needs to go, but now he's stopped doing that. At this point I'm worried that this reset has caused him to care even less when we start back up (in about 2 weeks). Any similar experiences? Ideas?

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    asklemmy Asklemmy What's the difference betone lemmy instance or another?
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    Similar to Mastodon, the different instances can represent single individuals, a small group of friends, a shared common interest, or host anything. It allows a “local” feed but can also connect to any part of the federated network. An instance might even choose to not broadcast to the larger federation at all.

    These instances also spread out the workload of any single server by decentralizing the network, which allows Lemmy to grow without falling into a capitalist growth method.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy When sleeping, door open or closed?
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    asklemmy Asklemmy When sleeping, door open or closed?
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    Cracked open so we can hear across the house to our kids room (also cracked open)… baby gates in front of both rooms to prevent the cats from disturbing our sleep lol

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  • dm_academy DM Academy Advent's Amazing Advice: The Lost Mine of Phandelver Fully Prepped and Ready to Go! Part 1 Cragmaw Hideout
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    Oh man, perfect timing... EXCEPT we've already just gone past Cragmaw Hideout 🙈

    Thanks for all of your hard work!

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What is your religion and what led you to identifying with / believing in it?
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    1 year ago 100%

    Raised Roman Catholic. Broke away in high school. Went all-out atheists but explored options to see what might fit my world view. Eventually settled after a while on agnostic atheist (I don’t believe in a higher power but I don’t “know”). Also found that Zen Buddhism aligns pretty closely, but by this point I don’t care to put myself into a box anymore. Nothing is a perfect fit and people make assumptions

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  • digitalart Digital Art Muad'Dib's Throne Room by Marc Simonetti
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    disagree on "they can't do Children without doing God Emperor" -- the Syfy Children of Dune miniseries was great.

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  • digitalart Digital Art Muad'Dib's Throne Room by Marc Simonetti
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    Almost feel like I want a side by side comparison of Muad'Dib sitting there vs Leto II when he's full on sandworm.

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    DM Academy soben 1 year ago 100%
    Equipment Suggestions

    I've only DM'd for ~3 times so far, and only once in person (this past weekend). I was introducing two friends to the game, and we're all excited to continue. Originally planned for a one-off (we're doing Mines of Phandelver. I aimed for it to be more introductory but the PCs are interested in continuing with what we have!) So, with the second session booked, I'd like to scale up my setup to help be more immersive. I have a lot of work ahead (reading, notes) so I'm in a better position. I've discussed with a DM friend of mine with decades of experience, and I'd love to hear what people suggest. Currently, I am aiming to purchase: - "wet" battle map (dry-erase) - tokens for characters/creatures (hoping to find dry-erase ones here, too) - basic 'tiles' set for when the the scenery is more generic (optional) - figurines for the PCs (optional) I was thinking the figurines would be unpainted, and I'd love to find a company that sells them individual, with generic designs for race/class, that I can go back to again and again as my campaigns diversify. Am I heading down the right path? Any other suggestions?

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    sciencefiction Science Fiction What are you Reading? (August 2023)
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    Not sure if Riot Baby counts, but I just finished that and The Dreaming Void.

    I’m tracking my progress through the Hugo award winners, so I’m now reading Rendezvous with Rama and have the Broken Earth trilogy on hand for when I’m done that.

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  • gaming Gaming Pet peeve, games that won't let you save
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    1 year ago 100%

    I just watched a video that covered this in part. You want to keep the player immersed in the game experience. The more interfaces you give them, the more they’re taken out of the experience.

    So autosaves are a great way to keep the user interacting with the game and feeling immersed.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy do you have multiple lemmy accounts in different instances. why?
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    1 year ago 100%

    I have two accounts so far. I wish there more of a way to sync them together. Primarily because I sometimes get links for other instances, and can't interact with them because I'm not "logged in" for that instance.

    I only have two, though, because my friend created a server, that I joined, and I created a server.

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  • dadsonly Dads Only [Question] How do you balance your mental health?
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    1 year ago 100%

    I greatly benefit from being hard of hearing and a wife that understands that we don't both have to suffer. For both of our kids, she's let me sleep without my hearing aids (and thus, not waking up with every little sound). As they get older, I'm solely responsible for them at night (she wakes me, and I go take care of them), but I still benefit from true silence at night, and only woken when it's important.

    The other, unspoken, part of my question is the fact that our lives are busy AF, and our time is absurdly limited. My free time ends up being chores, or doing things that I've either neglected or that have piled up in the interim (so many things to do around the house, both fun and not)... it's so rare to find time to do nothing

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  • dadsonly Dads Only [Question] How do you balance your mental health?
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    soben
    1 year ago 100%

    That's the thing, I feel that she deserves it more than I do. She's had to commit so much more of her body/time towards the kids, especially in those early months (and prior to birth)... so there's a lot more that she should get before I get anything.

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    Dads Only soben 1 year ago 100%
    [Question] How do you balance your mental health?

    Ever since we've had kids, my usual laid back attitude has been replaced with increasing stress and anxiety. I feel like I manage it well enough, but at the same time I find myself becoming more and more of a hermit. I need to get out more (run club once a week right now), and I always feel better when I do, but I also feel guilty for leaving the wife with the kids, or not spending time with them, by doing things for myself. What do you to balance yourself and your family?

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