asklemmy Ask Lemmy What old-style forums do you still frequent? Any you'd recommend?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 weeks ago 100%
  • games Games I'm the developer of WalkScape, the RuneScape inspired fitness MMORPG where you progress by walking IRL. We're now accepting more people to the Closed Beta!
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 weeks ago 100%

    Yeah most of my skills are in the 40's aside from fishing and foraging from lots of magnet fishing

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  • games Games I'm the developer of WalkScape, the RuneScape inspired fitness MMORPG where you progress by walking IRL. We're now accepting more people to the Closed Beta!
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 weeks ago 100%

    Total level 443 so far and while the core loop was already good the new content has really elevated the experience

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  • opensource Open Source Beyond-All-Reason: Open source RTS game built on top of the Recoil RTS Engine
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 weeks ago 100%

    Started playing BAR recently and am loving it. Prior to this I'd only played some SC2 and watched some videos about FAF.

    I've been playing with my 8yr kiddo against bots as we both learn the mechanics. The amount you can customize a match has been great.

    Also been watching the pro league tournaments on their YouTube channel which are great fun to watch.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What was "the incident" at your work place?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 4 weeks ago 98%

    Previous HR was well beyond retirement age essentially working to have something to do and one day emailed all of management a spreadsheet asking us to verify our information. That sheet contained each of our full names, addresses, phone numbers, birth dates, social security number, etc.

    To my knowledge nothing of significance happened. I have my credit frozen.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What was "the incident" in your school?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 92%

    Thank you; it's been a long, hard road for sure and our kiddos are now grown and doing well. We took the lessons learned and went into foster / adoption and now have a large family which has been a huge learning experience of its own.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What was "the incident" in your school?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 93%

    That was me. Girlfriend and I got pregnant when I was 15 and again at 17. Kept both and got a job. Studied hard and graduated 19th in my class with honors. Ton of negativity from school staff and loss of friends which is still hard to let go of. We did marry the fall after I graduated and after years of poverty things have slowly gotten more stable.

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  • askmeanything Ask Me Anything I (16F) am a Russian refugee, ask me anything
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    He sounds like a wise man. Congratulations on the move and hope you both a great life :)

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  • technology Technology Some YouTube channels for children are uploading obscene videos.
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    Jellyfin +yt-dlp

    Kids ask for a YouTube show, I get to evaluate and then they get safe watching

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Anyone still giving a name to your car, and what is it?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    We have a big family and have named ours:

    • Beast = 2004 Ford Excursion
    • Burgundy = 2011 Honda Odyssey (dark red)
    • Bus = 2004 Ford Econoline E350

    It never gets old yelling down the hall "to the beast!" :D

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What is the OLDEST online account that you currently still own and still use somewhat frequently?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    Ditto - oldest email I still have in archive is from Nov. 2006 so at least that old

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  • foodporn FoodPorn I Tried A New Recipe
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    Tried these recently as well; found a plastic cup that cut the holes perfectly. Kiddos loved them.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What's the most extravagant thing you've bought for your pet, and do you regret it?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 1 month ago 100%

    Water fountain

    She absolutely preferred it over a standard bowl

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  • games Games Indie developer behind 'Overwhelmingly Positive' rated shipbuilder argues that Steam's "free advertising" is worth the 30% cut
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 87%

    95% is closer to what board game publishers take - best I've seen is 10% for the designer

    Granted they have a lot more to lose

    From that perspective seems Steam is perfectly fine

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  • piracy Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ What percent of torrent users have open ports and are connectable? What would the speed difference be?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Most certainly

    MyAnonamouse is the first place where I really saw attention drawn to encourage port forwarding and after seeing the difference will always have ports forwarded

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  • linux_gaming Linux Gaming *Permanently Deleted*
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Is that the Logitech MX Ergo? Love that mouse

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Thank you and thank you also for the conversation

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    I would say that prohibition of local abortion healthcare is not the answer regardless as to what other options are available.

    Since writing the OP I've found a local pregnancy center that offers services in alignment with the above that is in need of male volunteers. I'll have my orientation next week and hope to be of help there.

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 50%

    start a car service that ONLY gives free rides to women and one or two support people

    A transportation service is a great idea, thank you for sharing

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What universally beloved videogame you just can't enjoy?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Minetest is actually what we play - I host a server for me and my kiddos and have tried out several different games / mods

    Currently preparing to move back to Asuna with an increase in mob mods and some of our other favorites

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What universally beloved videogame you just can't enjoy?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Minecraft and other open-ended games without much guidance toward specific goals.

    While I do enjoy freely exploring a large open world I also lose track of the point of playing at all... add some quest objectives or something and it's perfect.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What universally beloved videogame you just can't enjoy?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    Ditto here - I get bored super fast when gaming alone but put me on a server with others and I can easily play for hours

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What's something you did or acquired that made your life way easier?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 2 months ago 100%

    This and a proper height pillow for your sleep position

    I sleep on my side and needed a thicker pillow to better align my neck for example

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What generation are you?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    Ditto though '84

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  • minetest Minetest community A modded Minetest Game or VoxeLibre for a Minecraft-like experience?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    VoxeLibre is designed to be very similar to Minecraft without needing to tinker with mods or settings so I would definitely suggest starting there

    That said we've ran several different Minetest worlds and our other favorite was Asuna with additional mods

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 66%

    Thank for responding; I share your passion around the issue

    I am assuming you are in the US, in that case there are little programs available to help a woman raise a child she does not want especially if it is a red state.

    This is the kind of information I am looking for

    They do little background checks on people who foster and adopt

    As a foster parent of 8.5 years this is highly variable on the area; ours for example was extremely thorough and we were able to see several children's lives improved through their placements - I do not however want to discount that the opposite does also happen though I do not have the answer as to any better solution beyond providing significantly more support to all areas of the foster system. We need more well-meaning people to get involved both as social workers and especially as foster / adoptive parents.

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 66%

    In my opinion, the logical path for straddling both sides is to leave the pregant woman’s choice 100% intact, but then make it easy for her to choose the pregnancy. In other words, universal healthcare, a high-quality child care network, maternity leave, and assistance for getting the child adopted. Preventing unwanted pregnancies by providing contraceptives also helps a lot. I feel like that’s also why this discussion hardly exists in developed nations outside of the US, because they have these things.

    Agreed and I think this is where the group is aiming along with myself as well

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  • women Women Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 75%

    Agreed and so far all of my interactions with their team have matched that stance so I am hopeful.

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    Women s3rvant 3 months ago 63%
    Please help me understand the needs of those experiencing an unplanned pregnancy

    For a long time I have not felt belonging to either the Pro Choice or Pro Life groups and recently came across ProGrace which sets politics aside to focus on aiding the woman and meeting her needs directly both during and after her pregnancy regardless as to how she decides to proceed. This got my attention and I have since taken their training course, listened to their podcast and started some of their recommended reading to further my understanding. In full disclosure I am a white christian male in the southeastern USA who has experienced two unplanned pregnancies myself and after learning of how terribly the church has handled their support of women, especially around unplanned pregnancy, I am looking to work with my wife to educate those within our sphere of influence to address this. However, as mentioned above, I am a male and so naturally my experience around the issue simply does not compare to the depth of emotion and trauma that a woman would experience and so I am hoping to learn from those here who are or have experienced an unplanned pregnancy to better understand what support is needed to bring women through the traumas associated, overcome the fear and shame around the issue, and just generally help in any way I can. I know this is a sensitive topic and so I would not ask for sharing directly in the comments here. Rather I am hoping to chat directly whether via Signal, email, etc. or even a quick call for those comfortable with that (can use Jitsi, Signal or another private voice chat to avoid needing to share any personal details). I would like to simply listen to your experience; I will not debate, judge, etc. as my goal is entirely to learn. Thank you for taking the time to read and consider.

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    boardgames s3rvant 3 months ago 100%
    Nightfall vs Unchained: what's changed and why

    https://boardgamegeek.com/thread/3318143/nightfall-vs-unchained-whats-changed-and-why

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    games Games Minecraft players outraged as Microsoft deletes accounts that weren't transitioned
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    +1 for Minetest

    I run a server on our local network that kiddos love

    It was fairly simple to setup including which game type and mods

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  • patientgamers Patient Gamers It's almost the week-end, what are you guys going to play?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    Kiddos have gotten back into the Pokemon card game so we're likely playing Pokemon TCG Live

    Also hoping to finally break in the Nexalis ttrpg I've had on the shelf for a while now with the teens

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  • casualconversation Casual Conversation It's Friday, what are your plans for the weekend?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    Firing up the grill for Father's Day and inviting over both sets of parents; will have 4 generations together <3

    Will likely throw some wood on the coals after to roast marshmallows and make s'mores for dessert :)

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What jobs were you horrified to learn are done by people with little to no experience or training?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 3 months ago 100%

    I'm a certified forklift trainer and the training I needed for that was a single day that ended in a simple test...

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy What's something weird and mostly useless that you can do with your body?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 4 months ago 100%

    I can do this as well and find it useful for other devices that use a lot of button presses such as TV volume etc

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  • relationship_advice Relationship Advice Depressed Husband
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    That's great! He's welcome to message me as well if that might help break the ice a bit more.

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  • relationship_advice Relationship Advice Depressed Husband
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    This may help: https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame

    In short: making yourself vulnerable (such as processing these issues) is courage - it's not weakness

    Sometimes us guys need to hear that - I know I personally absolutely hate to break in front of others and that makes processing a very isolating experience that feeds depression unless I'm intentional about that processing

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  • casualconversation Casual Conversation What's a good name for a black cat?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    We have a 3-week old black kitten we've named Slate

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    Patient Gamers s3rvant 5 months ago 91%
    Too Many Bones just arrived; excited to play

    TMB has been on my wishlist for years but the price tag has been too high... this week I noticed it was in stock and a bit of extra funds had came in as well so I decided it was time to finally buy a copy. The game arrived today and I'm super impressed with the component quality. Even the tuck boxes and other component containers are well beyond the quality I've come to expect in a high quality board game. Hopefully will find time in an upcoming busy weekend to squeeze in a first play.

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    patientgamers Patient Gamers Monthly Recommendations Thread: What are you playing?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 75%

    Started playing FFXIV again after not playing since 2013. Decided to delete my character and start fresh as I don't remember the story etc. and am just going to take my time enjoying everything over again.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Unconventional kitchen utensil you can't live without?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    Yep! I have a Cosori kettle that's been working great (and outlasted my first two pots lol)

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Unconventional kitchen utensil you can't live without?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    Steel tea pot - I drink a pot every day but last couple pots were both glass and only last a couple months before breaking (both my fault) so upgraded to steel and so far my clumsiness hasn't yet managed to break it

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How do you Lemmings like your tea?
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  • s3rvant s3rvant 5 months ago 100%

    I drink a pot of camomile every day. 1st cup is still hot while rest is more lukewarm.

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    boardgames s3rvant 6 months ago 100%
    How to Play Unchained (Rules School) by TheGameBoyGeek

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llnIP6haDh0

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    Looking for online coop between Switch and PC

    Buddy of mine just picked up No Man's Sky on Switch but it lacks the multiplayer features of other systems. He only has Switch and I only have PC so I've come here to ask: Aside from Minecraft or Terraria what other games are available on both Switch and PC that we could play cooperatively together? Also it's totally fine if I need to host a dedicated server for it. Edit: specifically need PC version playable on Linux and ideally something open world.

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    "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearFU
    Daughter thought it would be hilarious to text me this...

    Context: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game_(mind_game)

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