japaneselanguage Japanese Language 相席(あいせき) doesn't exist/is long in English. More words like that, please?
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    4 months ago 100%

    上下左右 (じょうげさゆう). Means "top, bottom, left, and right". It isn't used very often, but it's useful for talking about web design, which is how I first encountered it.

    拘り (こだわり) when used for food. It's easier to translate it as a verb (拘る), which means to be particular about something. 玉子に拘っている can very simply be translated as "We're particular about eggs", but 拘りの玉子サンド is much more difficult to translate. In this usage, it means that lots of care, thought, time, and/or work has been put into getting it right. There are a few translations you could use, but I don't think any one of them had quite the same nuance. Jim Breen dictionaries translate them as "speciality", but I don't think it captures the original meaning at all. You could translate it as "artisanal" or "finest", but that gives it more of a high-end or luxury sounding nuance. "Meticulously crafted" is also close, but that sounds like something very complex or elaborate, whereas the original can be used for simple things.

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    Umechan
    7 months ago 100%

    There's no evidence that it made them gay. Maybe the demon provided a matchmaking service for closeted medieval queers.

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  • gay Gay: News, Memes and Discussion Still the best dicking of my life
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    Umechan
    7 months ago 100%

    Is it really that bad? I've been living in Asia for 10 years, and although it seems like there are some desperate bottoms in rural areas and smaller cities, it doesn't really feel like things are that easy for tops. There's actually been plenty of times when other tops have wanted me to bottom for them.

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  • askmenover30 askmenover30 Men who have been married for many years, what do you think are the biggest mistakes men make in relationships that should be avoided?
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    7 months ago 66%

    Yes. I'm not married, and I'm sometimes shocked at how some men seem to use marriage as an excuse not to learn basic life skills, especially in an age when you can learn almost any non-professional skill for free on YouTube.

    My dad always did his fair share of housework, but he rarely cooked. Once I was old enough, I would cook for him whenever my mother was away. During her first trip away after I got my first job, my dad got really drunk because he didn't feel like waiting for me to get home and make him dinner before going out. He was born in the 1940s, so I accept that his generation were raised to see cooking as feminine, but we should have moved on from that.

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    Umechan
    7 months ago 100%

    Both characters have the same meaning in this case, so it probably doesn't matter. I think 花金 is more common.

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  • gay Gay: News, Memes and Discussion UK Government Secretly Shuts Down NHS Pride Programme
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    Umechan
    7 months ago 100%

    It's a pointless move, but it helps them in their aim of adopting America's anti-woke culture war rhetoric.

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    7 months ago 100%

    I think trimmed beards can be very attractive, but I'm not going to judge anyone who's clean shaven. I don't have a beard because they don't suit me, so not having one isn't a deal-breaker.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language A mistake I once made: instead of お城(おしろ)I said お尻(おしり)
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    Umechan
    8 months ago 100%

    I was once wondering around a neighborhood in Tokyo and passed by a group of friends who were saying goodbye to each other. I heard one of them say "お疲れヤマ". I stopped, wondering if it was some strange kind of slang or regional variation, but she then started laughing and said "お疲れマウンテン".

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    Umechan
    8 months ago 100%

    代々墓 (だいだいばか): An ancestral grave

    One of my Japanese teachers pointed out that it's often used in sentences like OO家族代々墓, which makes it sound like " the OO family are massive idiots.

    I also thought 五十五 sounded funny when I first learned it, because I thought it was supposed to be pronounced like "go Jew go".

    It probably doesn't make any sense noq considering how quickly internet language changes, but I learned the word for ambulance (救急車 きゅうきゅうしゃ) around 15 years ago, and at the time QQ meant crying, and was used to call people emotional crybabies. It reminded of the term "wahmbulance" which people would use when someone is being whiny.

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    Umechan
    8 months ago 93%

    Sorry to nitpick, but there's no way there's only a 5 inch height difference between them. Once again, someone has been caught using Grindr inches.

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  • gay Gay: News, Memes and Discussion The one occasion where it's acceptable to ghost a bottom after he's already prepped.
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    Gay: News, Memes and Discussion Umechan 8 months ago 100%
    The one occasion where it's acceptable to ghost a bottom after he's already prepped.

    I hope none of my fellow tops have considered hooking up with this guy. People who block laws that would have advanced the rights of trans people don't deserve to be topped.

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    gay Gay: News, Memes and Discussion When's JK starting on it?
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    8 months ago 95%

    The most tragic thing about this is that she isn't even using the word breedable correctly. The traditional meaning of the word, which she is trying to gatekeep, means to produce offspring. Humans breed by procreating with another human to create human children. Vaginas do not breed with other vaginas to create vagina children, so vaginas are not breedable.

    Even if you think the slang form of the word breedable this guy used is invalid, he's still breedable as long as he's capable of impregnating someone, even if he has no desire to do so.

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  • cocktails Cocktails, the libationary art! What are you drinking this weekend, Lemmy?
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    8 months ago 100%

    There's a karaoke place near me that has free soda and allows you to bring your own alcohol. I brought a bottle of abilla pisco and Angostura bitters so I could turn their gingerale and cola into chilcano and piscola. I also made a strawberry and yuzu macerados (infusion) with the pisco and can't wait until it's ready next week.

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  • learnjapanese Learn Japanese Not sure of the sentence order in this scentence
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    Umechan
    8 months ago 100%

    手紙 is the direct object. 家 is the place it was sent to, so I suppose that counts as an indirect object. Sentence order for Japanese is very flexible (although the verb must always come last), so I wouldn't worry too much about memorizing any particular order beyond Subject-Object-Verb.

    Edit: I took a look at the source you gave, and I think you should probably disregard this sentence pattern. It's clear from the purpose of the lesson that they were purposefully trying to shoehorn から, へ, and に into single sentence. I don't think it sounds particularly natural.

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  • japanlife Japan Life Thoughts when you fly back home?
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    8 months ago 100%

    Where do you live? Mapo tofu is relatively common, so you could likely get it in your own country if it has a sizable Chinese population. I wouldn't even call it a specialty of Japan, and I've personally had better ones in other countries.

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    9 months ago 100%

    No son of mine will ever use a namby-pamby Easy Bake Oven. He'll learn to bake using a proper oven like a real man.

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  • japanlife Japan Life Does anyone know any good blogs/sites for restaurant reviews that aren't user generated.
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    Umechan
    10 months ago 100%

    東京グルメで世界一周 Foreign cuisine from around the world divided by region and country. More common cuisines like American and Italian are also divided by specialty.

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    Japan Life Umechan 10 months ago 85%
    Does anyone know any good blogs/sites for restaurant reviews that aren't user generated.

    I've been trying to find some good restaurants to go to when I visit Tokyo around New Year's. I live near Nagoya, which has a few good western dining options, but isn't quite so good for Malaysian, Burmese, or Middle Eastern. I generally find Gurunavi and Tabelog overwhelming unless you're searching for one specific area and/or with specific conditions to narrow the results down to a reasonable level, so I've been more interested in blogs and other sites with curated content. Here are a few I found, so please comment with any others you know. [Niche Dekae](https://www.niche-dekae.com/archive/category/%E7%BE%8E%E5%91%B3%E3%81%97%E3%81%84%E3%82%82%E3%81%AE) Blog site featuring posts about restaurants that mainly serve more difficult to find cuisines such as Kurdish, Persian, Ethiopioan, and regional Chinese and Indian. [Search Ethnic](https://search-ethnic.com/) Features information about "Ethnic Cuisine" (which in Japan seems to refer exclusively to South and South East Asian food). Includes information about restauants abroad and in Japan.

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    japanlife Japan Life Any reccomendations for international, non-chain restaurants in Tokyo that are ideal for solo diners and open over New Years?
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    Umechan
    10 months ago 100%

    Somewhere casual as I'll be alone. I'll probably just be eating and going unless they also have decent drinks. I know plenty of places in Ameyokocho will be open, but there really isn't anything there that I couldn't get in Aichi, so I'm more interested in non-Japanese. As I stumbled upon the South Indian restaurant last year, I suspect there might be some other foreign-staffed restaurants that don't close as their families aren't in Japan, so I thought I'd ask on the off chance that anyone knows about any others.

    Andra looks nice. I'll probably check it out when I'm in Ueno.

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  • japanlife Japan Life Any reccomendations for international, non-chain restaurants in Tokyo that are ideal for solo diners and open over New Years?
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    10 months ago 100%

    Also, does anyone know any good sites for finding restaurants that aren't user generated? I find Gurunavi and Tabelog overwhelming, and also lacking in detail for individual restaurants. Is there anywhere with more detailed and curated content. I like bento.com despite it's design language being stuck in the early 2000s. Is there anything like that but in Japanese and more extensive?

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    Any reccomendations for international, non-chain restaurants in Tokyo that are ideal for solo diners and open over New Years?

    I live in Aichi, and I'm planning on visiting Tokyo over the New Years holidays. I'll have a few days when I'm not meeting friends, and as I can't travel often due to my health, I'd like to make the most of Tokyo's wider variety of restaurants while I can. Nagoya doesn't have the variety of international cuisine you can find in Tokyo, and as I'll be going to plenty of Izakaya with friends, I'm more interested in non-Japanese food. I'll be staying in Taito-ku, so any places nearby would be great, but anywhere in the special wards is fine. I like a wide variety of food, so any recommendations are fine. Especially for January 1st, as my friends normally need the day to recover. I found South Park, a decent South Indian restaurant in Asakusa last New Year's day, so I suspect there are other places like that open throughout the holidays.

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    10 months ago 100%

    Yes, it's gay to be concerned about what kind of world you're leaving to your children and grandchildren. /s

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    12 months ago 100%

    When I had sex ed in the late 90's, I was shown videos with real (but obviously non-sexualized) nudity. I don't remember there being any controversy about that at all, and I went to a Christian school (Anglican).

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    12 months ago 100%

    It's still what I'd consider late summer here in Aichi, but it's getting there. It's 25 right now, which is still enough for me to break into a sweat, but far from unbearable.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language My understanding of は vs が from the perspective of a programmer
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    Umechan
    1 year ago 100%

    I personally had one or two issues with the video you used. I'm not sure they were being literal when they said は means "as for". は doesn't have any meaning, it has a function. Translating it this way can help people understand how は works within the sentence, but I've also seen it confuse people too. I once saw a post from someone who said 私は難しい incorrectly thinking it meant "It's difficult for me."

    Some of the things you mentioned also weren't accurate.

    a) Generally speaking, cats are liked [猫が好きだ] b) As for me, cats are liked (-> I like cats) [私は猫が好きだ]

    Sentence B is correct. Sentence A however is just sentence B with the subject/topic omitted. You'll have to infer the it from the context, but it will be "I" in most cases. I don't think there will be any context in which it will be understood as cats being generally liked by everyone.

    a) Generally speaking, as for cats, everything about cats is liked. [猫は好きだ] c) As for me, as for cats, everything about cats is liked. (-> I like cats) [私は猫は好きだ]

    There are a few issues here that are a little misleading. は好き can be used like this, but in my experience of looking at sentence from native Japanese speakers, it's mostly only used in the following three ways:

    1. Comparisons, for example 私は猫は好きですが、犬は好きではありません (I like cats, but I don't like dogs.)
    2. Together with a conjunction like ですが、ですけど、でも, for example 私は猫は好きですが、飼ったことはありません (I do like cats, but I've never had one.)
    3. Together with になる, for example 私は猫は好きになれませんでした (I wasn't able to become a cat lover.)

    Number 2 and 3 can be replaced with が, but は is preferred for number 1.

    私は猫が好き also doesn't quite mean you like everything about cats. It's the same as saying you like cats in English, you're making a general statement without specificially identifying what you like about them. I like everything about cats is closer to 猫の事が好きです or 猫の全てが好きです.

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  • manga Manga Why Don't They Make College Sports Manga? Is College Sports Not as Big as Highschool Sports in Japan?
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    1 year ago 100%

    I'm no expert on this, but in addition to the other factors people mentioned, I would say that people in Japan seem to pay a lot more attention to high school sports. The Koshien Stadium and the high school baseball tournaments name after it are very famous. I'm not even interested in sports, but I know about them and often notice friends talking about them online. I know absolutely nothing about the college baseball tournaments or where they're held.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language TIL Japan has something called アメリカンコーヒー, often referred to in English by the unintentionally condescending name "weak coffee".
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    1 year ago 100%

    Weak has a very negative tone to it. Using weak to describe food or drink is rarely, if ever, used in a positive way.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language TIL Japan has something called アメリカンコーヒー, often referred to in English by the unintentionally condescending name "weak coffee".
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    1 year ago 100%

    As I mentioned in my other comment, I assumed they were the same, but several sites said they were different things. "American coffee" is a weak brewed coffee, and Caffe Americano (アメリカノ) is a diluted espresso, which is actually stronger than most brewed coffees, at least in terms of caffeine content. Japan has アメリカノ too, and in my experience it's much more common.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language TIL Japan has something called アメリカンコーヒー, often referred to in English by the unintentionally condescending name "weak coffee".
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    1 year ago 100%

    It appears to be somewhat common. When looking it up, I found several sites like this one that explained how to say アメリカンコーヒー in English.

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    I thought maybe it was supposed to say Americano, but it's not the same. There's an explanation here. It's made from light roasted beans, and they say it most likely got it's name from Americans in post-war Japan brewing coffee with lots of water or diluting it further before drinking.

    I'm not American, but the name sounds a little judgemental to me.

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  • japaneselanguage Japanese Language Do any ebook platforms have better integrated dictionaries than Google Play?
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    1 year ago 100%

    Thanks. How about conjugated verbs and adjectives? Google play's dictionary only recognizes then if they're in dictionary form.

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    1 year ago 100%

    For Google Play, the integrated dictionary doesn't recognize any word that has furigana on all of the books I've read, so I don't think it's an issue with individual books. It also can't recognize conjugated verbs or adjectives, so it would be great if there are any other platforms that can.

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    1 year ago 100%

    Can the dictionary recognize words that use furigana? That's my main concern as I don't use machine translation.

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    Do any ebook platforms have better integrated dictionaries than Google Play?

    I've gotten into reading Japanese books a lot more recently, and I prefer e-books as their built-in dictionaries are a god-send for foreign language learners. I've only used Google Play so far. The integrated dictionary is fine, but one annoyance is that it can't detect any word that uses furigana. Are Kindle, Kobo, or any other platforms any better?

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    manga Manga Delinquent/Yankee manga or manwha you enjoy?
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    1 year ago 100%

    I prefer the live action TV series, but the Sukeban Deka series is great. It's about a high school girl who works as an undercover agent for a branch of the police that investigates crimes that take place at schools that regular cops aren't allowed to investigate. Unfortunately, very little of the franchise has been officially released in a English. ADV released the OVA in the 90's. The 2000's movie reboot got a release too, but that was the worst version IMO.

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    1 year ago 100%

    I'm a cis gay man into eurobeat. There are some trans people I know of on the scene. There's Jessa Stebbins/Kendra Blast in America, and DJ Satomi in Japan.

    I think this song about Egg superstars is also relevent to your post.

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    Eurobeat Umechan 1 year ago 100%
    Glad someone created a eurobeat community. Here are some of my recent second-hand finds.

    I've been a fan of eurobeat of all eras for 20 years. I currently live in Japan, so I'm making the most of the year I have left here by tracking down as many of the older releases as I can while I can get them cheap.

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