atheism Atheism This bracelet was given as a gift to my 6yo daughter yesterday by some very Catholic family members. I have so many questions. Thankfully, my daughter didn’t. I wouldnt have known how to answer them.
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    Right??

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  • atheism Atheism This bracelet was given as a gift to my 6yo daughter yesterday by some very Catholic family members. I have so many questions. Thankfully, my daughter didn’t. I wouldnt have known how to answer them.
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 72%

    She quickly discarded the bracelet, thankfully, and I swooped it up and it shall never be seen again.

    But we were like… wow. Just… wow.

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  • technology Technology The Reddit Protest Is Finally Over. Reddit Won.
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Oh they were. Because they are us.

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  • science Science SpaceX's Starlink internet satellites 'leak' so much radiation that it's hurting radio astronomy, scientists say
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Why does it have to be “profitable”??

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  • fediverse Fediverse Announcing FediRedirect!
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    So it can steal your credentials and hack your accounts! Duh!

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  • fediverse Fediverse Announcing FediRedirect!
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    I can only get so federect!

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  • science Science SpaceX's Starlink internet satellites 'leak' so much radiation that it's hurting radio astronomy, scientists say
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 88%

    This is why we can’t have nice things!

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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    I don’t see you.

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  • 196 196 I see no rule
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    That was the joke.

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  • todayilearned Today I learned TIL that New York State paid more for the land for Central Park ($ 7.4 million) than the US paid for the entire state of Alaska ($ 7.2 million).
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    More important than that is how the Black settlement of Seneca Village was siezed through eminent domain, and razed to build Central Park:

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seneca_Village

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy I'll have my first appointment with a psychiatrist tomorrow. What should I expect?
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    Oh there’s always side effects. But for me, they were absolutely worth the difference in how my brain worked. I became functional again. Also, the psychiatrist will tell you all about the side effects. Let them know what you’re afraid of. They won’t lie to you. They will help find the right chemical for your issues. Might not find the perfect one right away either. But it’s worth trying, in my opinion.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy I'll have my first appointment with a psychiatrist tomorrow. What should I expect?
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    Good luck! Whatever you do, know that you’re not alone and that these professionals’ jobs are to make you feel like you can make it through the day, at the very least! So make sure they do their jobs. Don’t ever feel like you’re wasting their time or anything, which is what I struggled with. They’re there to help you.

    I’m also glad you girlfriend is a psychologist. My wife has helped me through so much stuff, and she isn’t a psychologist, she’s a baker. But without her, I wouldn’t be here. And I certainly wouldn’t have sought help if she hadn’t helped me realize that what I was experiencing could be alleviated with help from professionals.

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    To add to this, the therapist is going to help as well, so keep going to your therapist, especially if you are starting a prescription.

    It can be a rollercoaster for the first few months when you start any psychiatric medication, until your body adjusts.

    But stick with both your psychiatrist and psychologist and always let them know immediately if/when you feel strange or “off”. It will help tremendously.

    I wish you luck!

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Anyone else find the English accent hard to understand?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    The English language has evolved quite a bit over time. In fact, researchers have determined that in Shakespeare’s day, the typical English accent (and the one in which he wrote the rhymes in his works) sounded much like what we would consider a “pirate” accent.

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  • diy Do It Yourself The coolest robot I've ever built
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    This is rad.

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  • capitalismindecay Capitalism in Decay New York’s capitalists let Fascist Italy host a pavilion in their city in 1939
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    This is because they were the same people. Capitalists are fascists.

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  • lemmy Lemmy Introducing Echo for Lemmy iOS TestFlight Program
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    This is cool! But I don’t want to fill out a google form.

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  • futurama Futurama New Futurama Trailer. What are everyone's thoughts on this?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    I’m on board. I don’t care what anyone says. I’m gonna give it a chance.

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  • lemmy Lemmy Mlmym is a new Lemmy app that replicates the old.reddit interface
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    What a time to be alive!

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Can I run a server just for myself?
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    I believe their home instance would still need a domain and host. So I don’t think it would be their literal IP.

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  • technology Technology How Reddit crushed the biggest protest in its history (Feels super weird to see Lemmy get mentioned on mainstream news)
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Yeah, I’m really only ever going back to Reddit for comic book movie news and /r/motorsportsreplays because there isn’t a good sub on Lemmy for that yet.

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  • technology Technology How Reddit crushed the biggest protest in its history (Feels super weird to see Lemmy get mentioned on mainstream news)
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 88%

    Same! Lemmy definitely feels like early Reddit. Before the mods were gods and before shills and spam and porn were the norm.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What's your experience with Lemmy since last month?
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    Yep. Lemmy is the future of Reddit.

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  • memes Memes Rare photo of the February revolution, Communists forces redistribute the tsar's private property - here Romanav's cat's daily dental regime is interrupted as her toothbrush is seized for the people.
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    I chortled to myself.

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  • prolewiki ProleWiki We're now on Mastodon btw
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    On Mastodon you can also follow hashtags, and presumably that would be like following communities. But the interaction is just not the same as Lemmy/reddit. The Reddit/Lemmy format is so much better for real conversations.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy how do i create a community?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    You don’t!

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy My 13yo stepdaughter just recently started watching Gilmore Girls with her mom. What are some good things to say during their post-watch discussions that make it sound like I'm in the know?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    You really should just watch it. It’s a really funny show.

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple Retro game emulators on iOS that dont require jailbreak
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    This is cool! You should repost this to /c/retrogaming if that exists

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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Getting that on Beehaw.org right now.

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  • privacy Privacy Tell me if I’m wrong, but federated systems don’t seem to be the best for privacy because you can’t ever delete all of the copies of your posts and comments?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Especially since the data isn’t being collected to be sold.

    ...yet.

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  • privacy Privacy Tell me if I’m wrong, but federated systems don’t seem to be the best for privacy because you can’t ever delete all of the copies of your posts and comments?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Definitely not concern trolling. Just finally thinking about all this stuff. Thanks for the insight.

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  • announcements Announcements Lemmy v0.18.0 Release
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Is it like a grant then?

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  • privacy Privacy Tell me if I’m wrong, but federated systems don’t seem to be the best for privacy because you can’t ever delete all of the copies of your posts and comments?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    I'm not all that concerned with ACTUAL privacy/encryption but rather more concerned with lower-level things like stalking, harassment, employers doing research about their employees' non-work habits, insurance companies, etc.

    I'm not talking about doing anything illegal and hiding from authorities who can use forensics on your data. Just general anti-corporate snooping and anti-harassment privacy protection.

    Like, I feel more inclined to sign up and use something more like Raddle.me instead of lemmy because the owner of that site has a philosophical mission in favor of privacy.

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    Privacy GuyDudeman 1 year ago 80%
    Tell me if I’m wrong, but federated systems don’t seem to be the best for privacy because you can’t ever delete all of the copies of your posts and comments?

    I was thinking about this recently… By going to a federated system, one that essentially copies all of your content from one instance to another, when you delete a comment, does that comment get deleted on every instance? Is that even possible?

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    fediverse Fediverse Defederation and comment threads
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    I believe how it works is the comment from the user on the defederated instance and ALL child comments of it do not show up on your instance. So it’s as if that conversation just stopped after the last person from an instance that you’re federated with commented. You wouldn’t see anything from defederated commenters or the replies to them, even if they are replies from Instances you’re still federated with.

    Login to Beehaw and check out a post from a Lemmy.ml community on it, and then look at that same post while logged into Lemmy.world and you should see the differences - because Beehaw defederated from Lemmy.world.

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  • formula1 Formula 1 AlphaTauri to be rebranded in F1 2024, says Marko
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 75%

    $$$$$

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  • lemmy_support Lemmy Support Did you know this shit?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    I think the problem here is:

    Moderators of lemmy.ml are removing posts and comments which are critical of the Chinese government and are banning their authors.

    Is that not a problem, in your view?

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  • news World News Dragons' Den investor Vincent Guzzo arrested for criminal harassment
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Why was he harassing criminals?

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy If you hade a superpower what would it be?
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Correct

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple Vision Pro safe area limited to 10×10 feet for VR experiences
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  • GuyDudeman GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%

    Most people don't have 100 sq. ft. of open space in their apartment/house anyway. Also, what are you going to be using this with that you'd have to move around further than that?

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    Long Beach Ca GuyDudeman 1 year ago 50%
    Test

    Testing

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    Lemmy GuyDudeman 1 year ago 91%
    Inbox Aggregator?

    So, let's say you have accounts on multiple instances. And let's say you use each account separately and none of them you consider your "home" instance yet. It would be cool if there was a web app that could allow you to login to each of the instances, and it would gather your message inbox into one inbox, and allow you to reply to each message from the instance account that it was attached to. Or to switch accounts if you want to start using a single instance as a "home" instance. Does that make any sense? Like, I've got separate accounts on Lemmy.ml, Lemmy.world, Lemmy.one. Beehaw.org, etc. and I've been logging in separately to each of them because I don't have all the community subscriptions synced between them all yet and I'm not sure which one I want to use as my home instance. So it would be cool to be able to login to a single web app and see my reply inboxes from each instance.

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    Lemmy Support GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Subscribing to lemmy.ml communities from other instances gives "Subscribe Pending" button upon second click of "Subscribe" button

    Hi there... I'm not sure if this is just because lemmy.ml is overloaded right now or what, but if I'm on a different instance and I want to subscribe to a community that lives on lemmy.ml, then when I hit the "subscribe" button, nothing happens. When I hit it again, it gives me this yellow "subscribe pending" button: ![](https://lemmy.ml/pictrs/image/bca8d505-1a7c-4a96-aa0e-993192b8d97d.png) Is there a queue that the request goes into on the parent instance or something? Or do I just have to wait until traffic dies down to subscribe?

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    DCcomics GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Getting caught up on DC

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/1168732 > Hi guys, > I heard some news about DC doing another reboot of the universe and restoring it to pre-crisis (like, pre-original crisis on infinite earths) status, so I decided to get back up to speed on the current goings-on, since I kind of dropped off after New 52. > > I decided to pick it back up after researching what that whole Metal thing was about. I read Death Metal, and now I'm moving on to New Frontier, I think. Hopefully I get caught up soon. > > What are your impressions of DC lately?

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    Unreal Tournament GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Damn, I miss this game

    I really wish there was a way to setup a new server system that allowed people to play it online again.

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    Oh yeah? www.youtube.com
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    Comics GuyDudeman 1 year ago 90%
    Getting caught up on DC

    Hi guys, I heard some news about DC doing another reboot of the universe and restoring it to pre-crisis (like, pre-original crisis on infinite earths) status, so I decided to get back up to speed on the current goings-on, since I kind of dropped off after New 52. I decided to pick it back up after researching what that whole Metal thing was about. I read Death Metal (which was NUTS and awesome), and now I'm moving on to New Frontier, I think. Hopefully I get caught up soon. What are your impressions of DC lately?

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    196 GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    I see no rule

    Where's the rule? I don't see no rule.

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    Lemmy Support GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    "Show Context" link icons confusion

    Hi guys! First of all, I just want to say thank you again for creating such a great platform. I'm really loving it here, and I hope that I'm not being a pest to anyone. (Please let me know if I'm rubbing you the wrong way and I'll do my best to right my wrongs.) Anyway, I've noticed something on comment replies.... These two links on comment/post replies in your inbox: ![](https://i.imgur.com/s6RR129.png) On both of them, the tooltip says "Show Context" but the first one (the link one) actually is the one that shows the context and the second one (the colorful one) is more of just a permanlink to the comment. Shouldn't the tooltip say "permalink" on the colorful one?

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    Weezer GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    "A Little Bit of Love" is my favorite song and Weezer, I think, has surpassed Pearl Jam as my favorite band.

    I've been a fan of Weezer since Blue album (with a small hiatus in the early 00's when Hash Pipe and Island in the Sun were being overplayed on the radio)... But I have to say... everything they've done has just gotten better and better. I think they're producing their best music right now. The Seasons albums were fantastic, in my opinion. I'm just so happy they're still making amazing music.

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    Formula 1 GuyDudeman 1 year ago 93%
    Can we create a rule about not allowing spoilers (for those of us who can't watch live)?

    I just hate having qualifying and the races spoiled by headlines. I know this is "me" problem, but I can't be the only one, right?

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    Lemmy Support GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Sorting Communities

    Is there anything in the pipeline that will enable sorting the communities in the Community list by the columns they have listed there?

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    Leftist Infighting GuyDudeman 1 year ago 75%
    Welcome to Leftist Infighting! The safe space to call each other names and debate shit, all in the name of solidarity and comradery!

    Hi there! Welcome to one and all! And I mean that - all factions are welcome here. As long as you're respectful and in good humor. If any conversation devolves into anger, it will be removed, and the users banned for a period of time to cool off. Please keep it light in here. Serious discussions are allowed, but don't get sanctimonious or belittling. Always consider that the other person you're talking to is here in good faith and wants a common goal. We may disagree on tactics, but ultimately we all want to live in a society of wellness for all, and we should work together for that goal.

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    Mlem for Lemmy GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    New mlem logo discussion

    Hi all! I've gotten permission from [@lFenix@lemmy.ml](https://lemmy.ml/u/lFenix) to start a thread here about changes to the logo/identity system for mlem. This is the current mlem logo: ![](https://lemmy.ml/pictrs/image/48f24eab-e333-4653-b19e-95d994487c0c.png) To start with, I have some thoughts, and a bit of a history lesson that can help inform us as to what directions we want to go in: Lemmy was named Lemmy because of two reasons: 1. The creator of Lemmy was fond of the game [Lemmings](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemmings_(video_game)), wherein the player leads an ever-increasing line of rodents through a puzzle [to avoid certain doom](https://readonlymemory.vg/the-making-of-lemmings/) (or towards their certain doom - you decide). *(It might also be useful to note that at the height of its popularity, the Lemmings game was targeted and labeled a "satanic" video game by certain far-right christian groups, due, ironically, to the whole "leading a group of mindless entities to their certain doom" idea, and also primarily because there were [levels that appear to take place in a hellish cavern, where you lead the lemmings into the mouth of a demon.](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/lemmings/images/5/53/LemmingsFun28.png)) This is all part of the "[Satanic Panic](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUNxOA-TMPc)" often found among far-right groups who believe in Satan, and are afraid of him.* 2. Lemmy from Motorhead had just recently passed away, and so as a way of honoring Lemmy from Motorhead, they named it Lemmy. ---------- Regarding the Lemming rodent itself: In popular culture, a longstanding myth holds that they exhibit herd mentality and jump off cliffs, committing mass suicide. [This myth was created and perpetuated by Disney in their 1958 "nature documentary" film "White Wilderness" wherein they staged a mass-suicide of lemmings](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Al2CnczsP9k) that they had imported to Alberta Canada from Manitoba specifically to stage and film this myth. The current mlem icon look seems really close to the Mickey Mouse logo, especially at a small icon size, which is why it struck me that maybe we need a new logo for this app, at the very least. I'm also not sure how closely we want to try to associate with Lemmy from Motorhead. He was a great guy, by all accounts, but I'm not sure what his estate would say about it, nor do I think there is much mass-recognition or mass-appeal in going that route. ---------- A few questions: - Are we married to the name "mlem"? - Do we want to emphasize any of the particular letters in the name? For instance: "mLEM" or "mLem" or "MleM"? - What is our primary audience going to be? Are we looking to appeal to feminine equally as well as masculine and androgynous? - What logos and identities do you think currently do a good job of straddling that line of appealing to the entire spectrum? - This is a mobile iOS app, so do you feel like we should make sure that it feels like it belongs within that ecosystem? - Should the emphasis be to make it fit within the overall Lemmy GUI ecosystem itself, adhering to and following the default GUI design of the default Lemmy instance installation, and change with that as it changes? - Should the default icon style be ever-changing, similar to how Apollo's icon designs were customizable? - Even if the styles and aesthetics change, the actual logo for the app should probably remain consistent. - Color theory should be applied to the default aesthetic of this design, of course, so I'll give you a [link to the emotional/cultural impact of colors to inform those decisions](https://www.verywellmind.com/color-psychology-2795824). If this app is going to be used worldwide, we will need to take into account cultural variations in terms of color interpretation. - Given that lemmings are native to the arctic tundra, should we take that into account in the design/coloration? Using whites and blues to bring to mind ice and snow? Or is that too cold/forbidding, and we want to be warmer and more inviting? ---------- Any other ideas to consider?

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    Lemmy Support GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Modding: How to sticky a post... when the "..." menu isn't showing the options?

    I created /c/tiki and I want to pin the welcome post. But when I click on the "..." for the post, I just get the standard buttons, no mod options. What gives?

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    Tiki GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Welcome to c/Tiki! Join us for relaxation and escape to a tropical paradise!

    Everyone is welcome here, to this chill paradise of leisure and relaxation. Except squares. No squares. If you're curious about the history of Tiki culture, [this video is a great introduction ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2z1stMWqa2o)to the history and current status as of the early 2000's.

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    california GuyDudeman 1 year ago 100%
    Long Beach in the house! Where you from?

    Hey y'all. How's it going?

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    I'm apparently a lib?

    So, I'm not cool with genocide. Not cool with that at all. Even if they are landlords. I'm much more in favor of reeducation centers, personally. I'm against the death penalty on moral grounds. I believe that everyone deserves a second and third chance. With that said, economically, I consider myself to be anarcho-communist or communalist or "left-communist" or whatever the fuck you want to call it. But apparently all of that makes me a lib, and not welcome on the left? Is that correct? *edit: I've now been banned from LemmyGrad, so yeah, that kind of confirms it. You guys are morons. Or a PsyOp meant to forever impede any sort of sea-change towards socialism.

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